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How do I convince my dad to let my pierce my eyebrow? My mom already said yes, but I can't do it unless my dad says yes too.

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Say: "But DaaaAAAAD! I wanna look just like all the other kids at school! I have to conform to the non-conformists!"

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sunshine_gurl
Hahahaha!!
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cutsandscars
You're an a$$hole. For starters, I don't want to look like the other kids. I spent all my years trying to be different then them, why would I want to be the same? Second, I know maybe 5 people in my school who have an eyebrow piercing. Third, I want one for me. I want one because personally, it goes good with my style of clothing. So F*ck off
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Hahaha looks like I hit a nerve! :-)
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cant take a joke?
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cutsandscars
You really are the stupidest person on the planet. I'm not even upset about your comment. I was just saying I don't want one because other people have one.
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sunshine_gurl
Cuts: Even if you do think he is the 'stupidest person on the planet', he's also a great father. He's just telling you what he would basically here if his daughter came up to him and asked for an eyebrow piercing.
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no wonder your dad wont let you get one, you seem like a brat
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Hahaha I can always tell when I hit the truth button, the name-calling, the long explanations, and especially the denials.
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cutsandscars
Sunshine, well he doesn't have the right to. He doesn't know me or my family, and my parents have always accepted me for being different then the other kids. I just asked a simple question and he didn't have to answer it.
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sunshine_gurl
You also didn't have to confront him, now, did you? All settled then :)
Tony: Funny, isn't it?
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sunshine_gurl
By the way, in my other comment directed to cuts, I meant *hear. Just saying.. Lol
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Oh but I DO have the right. You asked, I can answer any way I please, don't expect everybody to answer the way you want them to, that's life, kid, get used to it.
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Sunny, it's ironic :-)
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cutsandscars
I don't expect anything to be the way I want it to, but you didn't answer the question I had asked. So technically, if you can't answerer it, then don't
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sunshine_gurl
Actually, if you re read your question and then his answer.. He did answer the question you asked. Just not the answer you wanted.
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I'll answer any way I damn well please, it's called Freedom of Speech, if ya don't like it, learn to love it! :-)
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cutsandscars
Do you honestly believe this country has freedom of speech? If you do , you're dumber than I thought.
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"He doesn't know me or my family ..."

Nor do the people who did answer the way you wanted them to.
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this country has freedom of speech, if you dont like it, then go to saudi arabia
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Ok, go outside and scream "I HATE OBAMA!" and see if any jackbooted goons drag you off to the gulags. If they do, I'll admit that I was wrong :-) haha
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sunshine_gurl
Wow. I can't tell you how much that realization just hit me Tony.. Lol
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cutsandscars
And I meant that as my family as accepted me as 'Goth" So they aren't saying no because of that.
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cutsandscars
My dad is really into politics, and he's shown me a few things. I'll be laughing at you in about 5 to 10 years when the government controls absolutly everything we do and say
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"I'll be laughing at you in about 5 to 10 years when the government controls absolutly everything we do and say"

Hahaha you'll be laughing at that? ... And you call ME stupid? HAHAHA!
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"I can't tell you how much that realization just hit me"

Which part, Sunny?
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cutsandscars
yea because I'll be dead by then. But I doubt that you will. I'm not stupid. The day I let someone control me will be the day I die. Me and my dad are both dying that day and I know it. But you'll most likely be alive. And I'll laugh in my eternal sleep,
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"... if you dont like it, then go to saudi arabia"

Haha they'd love to get their hands on a "goth" girl!
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sunshine_gurl
"He doesn't know me or my family ..."

Nor do the people who did answer the way you wanted them to.


I was just like.. That is so true.. Lol
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Oh, yeah that, pretty funny huh? HAHA
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sunshine_gurl
Have you ever talked to this girl before? She's talking like she knows your life story.. Lol
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"The day I let someone control me will be the day I die."

Haha that day has already come and gone, little girl.
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cutsandscars
yea if you have a kid, which sunshine made it clear you do, that kid will suffer. While you're on here, being dumb to teenage girls, you're kid will suffer.
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@cutsandscars, i doubt you even know what your talking about right now
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Nope, this is the first time. Normally what happens is the little girl will act all tough at first, then after a while she'll come to understand that what I'm doing is showing her tough love, then they usualy come around. But this one seems extra fiesty! haha
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sunshine_gurl
Tony, I think that before either of us knew each other that much, we had a conversation similar to the tough love situation you're talking about.. I feel a tad deja vu! Haha (:
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cutsandscars
@hunter sweetheart, I know exactly what I'm talking about. Look up Alex Jones for me
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Yes, my poor little 5 year old is suffering soooo bad ... as she's sound asleep in her bed, 4 days before her first day at a private school we're paying for to ensure that she gets the best education we can afford.
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"@cutsandscars, i doubt you even know what your talking about right now" - Dude

It's pretty obvious. But it's ok, she'll grow out of it. We all went through this phase. I think she just needs a little bit of good old fashioned tough love.
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cutsandscars
She's not suffering yet, but she will. Especially when half the country will be unemployed, and the government will control everything you can and can't do. I give your kid about 5 years of happiness left.
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Project your misery onto somebody else, I'm way too happy to let it affect me :-)
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cutsandscars
You may be too happy, but do you honestly expect the world to just keep going? There's always an end. And for most of us, that end will be in about 5 years
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Speak for yourself, if you think YOUR world will end in 5 years, it's probably gonna be a self-fulfilling prophesy. MY world will just keep on going and only getting better :-)

(See what that goofy goth music does to your brain?)
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See what goofy TV does to yours?
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"Tony, I think that before either of us knew each other that much, we had a conversation similar to the tough love situation you're talking about" - Sunny

Well it must've helped because you're one of the most positive kids on here!
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sunshine_gurl
"(See what that goofy goth music does to your brain?)"

Do the boy bands do the same thing? ;)
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sunshine_gurl
Haha, Yup, Positive because of you ! :)
And thank you :)
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sunshine_gurl
I hope you don't mind me stealing your quote ordeal.. It seems to work out well.. Lol
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"See what goofy TV does to yours?" - Cuts

No, I don't watch Victorious, unlike SOME people around here! HAHAHA :-)
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"Do the boy bands do the same thing?"

No, that makes you go "OMG OMG OMG!" haha :-)
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"Positive because of you ! :)
And thank you"

Awww ... come here and gimme a hug!
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cutsandscars
Lol you're right I do watch Victorious. I also watch Icarly and Good Luck Charlie. Why? Because I have a 5 year old niece who is living with my family right now. That's why. The only goofy show that I watch for my own entertainment is Pretty Little Liars.
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Kids love that Disney stuff, they can't grow out of it fast enough! :-) haha
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I've never seen Pretty Liars, I'll take your word for it though.
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sunshine_gurl
*Hugs Tony* I feel like you're my dad.. Lol
Tony: PLL is a screwed up show. I watch it.. Lol. But I see where she gets a lot of her ideas.. ;)
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If your Dad says no, it's because he loves you and doesn't want you to make mistakes you'll regret later on in life. it seems like a cool thing to do now, but when you get older you'll take it out and wish you didn't have the scar that comes with it.
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sunshine_gurl
"No, that makes you go "OMG OMG OMG!" haha :-)"

LOL! I will never do that to you! :)
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"I feel like you're my dad."

Awww, my Ask-Daughter! ... Now go take down those 1D posters! haha :-)
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sunshine_gurl
BAHAHA!!!
But.. I didn't even take pictures and post them to facebook yet.. Lol ;)
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"... yet"

Oh dear God NOOOOOOOOOOO!!!
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sunshine_gurl
Tony.. You can't be my dad.. You're too much fun! :0)
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Oh My Gosh.. I've got to go I will 'see' you later.. My phone just rang and its an unfamiliar number.. YAY!!! I'll explain later.. :D:D:D
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Later! :-)
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tell your mom to talk to your dad about...Hope it works :D

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Tell him you'll pay for it and if that doesn't work you have respect and wait till your either A. Old enough. Or. B. Wait till you move out.

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Just do it
What is he going to do beat you .. Call the police

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Be patient with your dad. When he feels your ready and responsible he'll let you. Don't be pushy with him, he'll only deny you. Just keep showing him that you're responsible and mature enough to wait until he feels you can. He's protecting you and that's his job as a father so just keep showing him mad love. And try to understand his position. You're his babygirl and he only wants the best for you.

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Cry and pull a guilt trip on him to make him feel bad.. Works like a charm! ;)

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