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I'm struggling to survive, in this world. So many things have happened, and I can't handle it. I just want to leave.

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I know exactly how you feel! I felt the same way before. When I was 5 years old my dad left my mom, which killed me on the inside! I have been getting beaten by my brother ever since I was 7 years old. He is now 19 and im 14, he still beats on me. I've been put in the hospital because of it! I don't get along with my mom, she's always rude to me and blames me for everything! I only get along with my dad! I have had a rough life, and I still do! But I learnt to embrace the life I have and live life to the fullest! I still sometimes feel like nobody cares about me, but I know people do! Life can be tough at times, but you can get through it! My friends helped me, and I'm sure yours can too! :) I can. honestly say, without my friends I wouldn't be who I am today! just keep your head up, things will get better, I promise! :)

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thanks but I don't think I can
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My brother beat on me til the day I told him I would call the police if he ever laid a hand on me again. That is not right! Brother or not!
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I'm sorry you had to go through all that but I'm glad you're here today to realise the good side in life (:
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Trust me, you can!! You have to think positively! I was extremely depressed when I was 10 years old because of everything going on in my life! I got over that! I just remembered that was my life, I could keep it the way it was or I could change it. I wanted to change it, I did everything possible to change it and it worked! I'm now 14, still facing many problems and struggles but way better than I was before! Keep your head up! You have a full life ahead of you! Things will get better :)
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@loraK yea, I know it isn't right, I've tried calling the police on him before but my mom took the phone so I couldn't call.. She would just stand there and watch! I'm just glad I have an amazing dad that's there for
Me, thats all I ever need! My father and my friends!
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Nice answer from you too advicegirl13 :)
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You are very welcome :)
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Sorry you had to go through with what you went through. I'm just not sure I can take the abuse i get from my dad
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What is life - Trials - Tests and Tribulations to make us stronger better people .

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yeah I know but my life has been really hard, for the past few months, and it is really hard to explain
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You have to be strong / Pray and roll with the punches .
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You find someone that you trust to talk to. No one can make it alone. You need people to help you at times. Things get bad in life, but they don't have to stay that way. You put one foot in front of the other and move on.

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i believe God creates us in pairs(male& female) to support each other in this harsh life moreover to have some one to relay upon when you are down, so just go and have some fun.

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With prayer and faith! Its not what u go through in life its what your growing through. Whatever u going thru jus look at it as a lesson.life is always showing us things we need to see. Its a lesson n a blessing thru all ur darkness the sun is on the other side

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my life has been far from a picknick.. ive had many times that i just wanted it to stop.. things happened that should just not happen to anyone.. of the times i wanted to leave but didnt, something happened soon after that would remind me why its important to stay.. sometimes something good that happened to me, sometimes something great i was able to do for someone else, sometimes just something where i got to make a big positive difference..life is far from fair.. in fact at times its total bull sh*t.. but a lot of good can come from it too.. for you and from you.. im here if ya need me

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your absolutely inspirational and I'm glad your here to tell this story (':
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wow thats very nice of you. thank you.. i just hope it helps
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Life is hard for everyone. Not just yourself. Remember you're not alone. We all have hard times, we all have our vices, but we all wake up in the morning, and face them with a smile, because we aren't cowards who take the easy way out.
Take a deep breath, relax for a minute, think about the positive things in your life. And don't tell me you have none, because there's at least one. Look at your whole life, and be thankful for everything good that has happened to you. Make a list of things in your life you don't like, then after you have everything written down, take the list, and crumble it up, and throw it away. And then, do that in life as well. Start slow, one thing at a time. One day at a time.
Smile. Someone out there cares about you. <3

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Nice answer Cj :)
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Your very welcome :)
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what kind of life? just be optimistic.

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What do you mean, "in this world"? Like there's another one?

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i meant in my life it has just be really complicated lately
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... It's called a world isn't it.. and how fo you k.ow there is no other world? just go with it... your supposed to be helping her not being a grammar Nazi!
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You aren't alone. Sometimes I think to myself "what's the point of all this?" and "why try?" Ultimately, you have to find things you love to do, people you love being around and trying to make this life one big adventure. You've only got one life and the wind isn't always gonna blow in your sails but if ya keep goin, good times WILL come and when they do, notice them, don't take them for granted and most of all enjoy them to the fullest!
"It's the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life interesting."

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I believe in God that's how I get through tough times. Others focus on the good stuff/times in their lives, like children, friends, loved ones, etc. try helping someone who is less fortunate then yourself, it may just help you put things in perspective. I'm not making less of your feelings, it will get better. Some things people go through and come out on top, happy, people despite the odds, is amazing. Hope it gets better for you very soon, I believe it will :)

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Think you only live once and you have to survive to make it better .. Do what you like that way u r going to be more happy

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Thank about this, if this is the only life we get, out of all the stars and all the billions of galaxies, you are totally unique. Nothing else has your memories, laughs, cries, knowledge, you are the only you, and there are no second chances. We each exist and interact with this world for a short time, strive to find and enjoy the good things in life.

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Start listening to music, singing, reading or doing a sport, to help you relieve the high stress in your life. Next you need to start getting out, join a club or group, get away from people who are hurting you or call an abuse center if you are abused. Call 211 for one in your area.

You can change your life. It will not be easy, but you do not have to settle for the way it is, it can be better. You can make it better by taking action, call someone and ask for help today.
Take care

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