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I'm 13 And me and my bf just started going out. We r already sexual. Is this wrong? And if he hasn't hit puppetry could I still get pregnant

please help he did use a condom last time

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Gators4eva6

you're WAY too young to be sexu@lly involved

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What happened to the kids of today :O that is so wrong :O

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IKR!!! whats poisoned their minds (even tho im that ageish)
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I know! This generation is so messed up. Even though I'm part of it :)
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Kingchannie
not every kid fella 15 year old virgin
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I'm 14 and I'm thinking thats way to young
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that is
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you should not be sexu@lly involved its to young!!! Why!!!!! and does yo parent/guardian kno cuz thats not right and no you dont have to hit pupperty i believe im around that age I find it wrong too!!!

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You are way to young

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whoahhhhhhhhh slow down there. there isnt a prize for who can lose there virginity first!! cuz when u get a husband that you rlly love and u do it then u say u already lost your virginity then he might divorce cuz of that. but i do understand the temptations sooooooo if he used a condom i think ur fine.

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lol why u say no it wasnt a question
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hahaha jess is right sss7677 KNOCK THE S3X OFF!!
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He didn't use a confim
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Condom
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Lol in a perfect world does having sex with your husband only actually real
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if he didnt use it then were u on ur period?
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I was on my period
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then u cant get pregnant
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So cause I wasn't on my period and he didn't use a condom I cant get pregnant
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exactly cuz u need a sperm cell.
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Ok. I got it the next day that's fine rigt
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ya if its on schedule
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welcome
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I did the test an it came out positive
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good :)
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Not good :O
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it means shes not pregnant
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positive=prego negative=not DUH!!!!
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ya but she got her period DUH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i mean DER DERRR
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wth
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haha srry its somthing ppl say in my school tht doesnt rlly make sense
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but it was used with condom.
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Yes it's wrong. Sex before marriage is a horrible sin. Also, you can get pregnant no matter what. There is nothing in this world that can stop pregnancy.

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yes, a condom, the pill, abortion
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You asked for help, here it is:
Do NOT have s3 x with anyone at your age!!
(If you think "puppetry" has anything to do w/ getting pregnant, you're obviously much too young... WAY too young!!)
Any time you have s3 x, you CAN get pregnant. Go get a pregnancy test & keep your fingers crossed that it turns out "negative."
Please do not have s3 x at your age! If you're not pregnant now, it's only a matter of time before you are... so knock it off! There'll be plenty of time to have s3 x when you're older.

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Although it wasn't long ago when marriages were arranged between men and young teenage girls, and teenage girls were having "legitimate" sex, the times are quite different today. At 13, you are just starting your womanhood and sex can often be mistaken for love. If you are having sex at this age, it is often because you want to feel loved. Maybe you are not getting enough demonstrated love and attention from your father???? Or maybe you have lost a loved one, and you are soothing yourself in this way. It is hard to stop having sex, once you have started, because it can feel so good to be so intimate and close. If you cannot stop, then Get to Planned Parenthood and get some birth control, PLEASE! Immediately. And use a condom.....EVERY TIME! Guys often LIE to girls about other girls they have had sex with in the past....and at the same time they are having sex with you, even when you think they are telling the truth. Protect YOURSELF!

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This is so wrong. Grow up first!

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Wow!...just wow! I don't even know where to begin! He hasn't even hit puberty yet!!!! That should be an indicator that you're too young!! Your a child and absolutely cannot even begin to understand the consequences of your actions! Yes there is a chance you will get pregnant, then your life will be ruined. Just stop!!! Christ! What is wrong with you kids today!?

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I agree 100% hey hey wowowowoah slow ur roll im that age and im a good girl so keep it down to whats wring wit her
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No he has I asked him :)
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Brezzy...you might be ok, but generally speaking your age group is all kinds of messed up.
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Even if he has hit puberty, it still too young, so that doesn't help the situation
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This is true!
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Puberty not puppetry.
Sex at thirteen definately is a BAD idea and if the boy is younger that makes it even worse. What on earth is wrong with you kids?!!! I hope you're intelligent enough to insist he use condoms at very least! Of couse you can still get preggers and THEN what will you do??? Babies with babies. Its so freakin SAD!!!!

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At sixteen im sure hes well past puberty. What on earth are your parents thinking letting a 16 year old near you? Id call the police if you were my daughter, i dont care if hes under 18.
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First of all, it's puberty. And yes you are way too young. If you aren't knowledgable in sex or have any sexual education, then don't do it. Do your parents know? It is also illegal at that age.

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i can tell by the way you spelled puppetry your not ready yet your young you should be having fun you haven't even gotten to high school don't worry about boyfriends and sex worry about what friends house your going to spend the night at worry about worry fun and plus at that age a boy would trade a girlfriend in for a Nerf gun so don't worry about him worry about your youth and its spelled (puberty)

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Thats way too young!! What happens if you get pregnant? Your whole life is ruined and you would have to grow up fast!

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WOW at 13?! Omg. Way too young. I'm shocked. A teen should not be having sex. Here I am waiting for marriage. -.- disappointed

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Sex at 13 , I'm not alone , welcome to club , inb4 rage of people screaming to young because they never had sex yet

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It's not a proud moment to lose your virginity at 13.
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It's not a proud to go through society today as the kid who never got any till they died
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I'm not against sex before marriage but at your age the last hing you want to worry about is if your pregnant or not and if hes 16 im about 100% sure hes hit puberty and adding fuel to the fire your not using protection you have to realize there are so many STD's and STI's out and boys are not always honest and neither are girls and catching them is not rare at all im sure you dont want HIV because they cant be cured once you got it you got it the only thing you can do is get the right treatment so it wont turn into Aids, you've got so many years to worry about sex and it doesn't have to be when your 90 but when you love them and they love you just think and be safe
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Who said your gonna die at 13? There's plenty of time to have sex when you're older. Doesn't have to be at such a young age where your stupid and know nothing.
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First off, your way too young to be sexually active. When I was 13, I hardly knew anything about it, let alone wanted to do it. You misspelled puberty, which indicates again how too young you are. Even if he used a condom, there's still a way to get pregnant, cause condoms don't always work. This is a huge grown up decision your making here, & if you want my advice: don't be sexually active until your old enough to know what it means to have kids & old enough to be able to provide for a kid. Having a child is a lot of responsibility, & the sooner you realize that without getting pregnant, the better.

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Wow
You are way too young

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Has he even told you that he loves you????:-/ I mean think about it it's called "making love" so...

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Yea when we did it we've only been going out for a 2 weeks a week when we did it
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Even if he said "I live you" it doesn't help or prove anything. THEY'RE 13! They don't know what love is even if they think they do.
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THAT IS BULL CRAP im 13 ik what love is so keep it to urself pwez
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LOL no you don't. You THINK you do.
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t.m.i

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leave her alone !! its her choice not your guyses

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Don't do it

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WE GOTTA BABY MAMA OVER HERE! but seriously, he'll have to pay for child support,you'll have to find someone to watch your baby while you go to school.i mean like come on your still in SCHOOL for christ sakes! your gunna be like 13 going on 30! and lately schools have been getting harder.and if you think school is hard try coming home to having to take care of someone else and having to do homework! if you have ever baby sat before you'll know how hard it is.your mom may not even be there for you she'll probably be busy working so she can make money to take care of YOU! and you'll have to do the same for your baby.and if you think that just because that's your boyfriends baby means that he has to stay, oh no honey your wrong.

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your not married so he can leave whenever he feels like it.and if it were me i wouldnt want that for my child.and think about the pain while giving birth and while your carrying that baby for 9 months your gunna start having cravings and bad back pains.and after words you may become fat.and think about all those mean and cruel things that people are gunna say about you while your out in public.yes, i can garuntee they're gunna talk bad about you.bc people like to judge others.and that may make your life worse.you may become bullied afterwards.so please take this into consideration bc i just wastest half of my time worrying about YOUR life.not MINE!
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Hun, I know that you may be confused, and some of these people may seem to be giving you the evil eye, but I will just tell you plain and simple. You are way too young to be sexually active. I know that you two may think you love each other, but to be honest sweetie, you two probably have no idea what real love is yet. Love is not based upon sex, and one day (hopefully after you are grown and married) you will understand what real love is. And as for it being wrong, I'm not going to tell you if you were in the right or wrong. Every person has their own belief of what right and wrong is, so you will have to figure that one out. I am going to say this, though, if my 13 year old was having sex (unprotected sex at that) I'm pretty sure she wouldn't be making another visit to the wonderful world of dating again until she was 18. Good luck to you, hunny, hopefully yall will figure things out. Lord willing!

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