girl one: Like OMG...shes totally all up in my guys face. girl two: Like...he's my man! girl one: OMG! You wish you like look as good as I do..OMG! girl two: PSH!!! Like OMG!! That's so last year's hair!!!
Cause some girls can be very catty. And girls are very jealous creatures, a lot of us are anyway. I should know, I'm a girl, I get jealous sometimes, but I make myself knock it off because I know I'm being ridiculous. Not some other girls, they start hating. I had a friend say "I feel like you like ____ and _____ more than me" cause I was hanging out with two other people frequently..... >_<
1 year ago
Last edited at 8:31AM on 8/24/2012
A guys opinion, - Girls are not in direct competition with each other. This is a myth propagated by womens magazines in order to stir up rivalry. If you subscribe to the BS that Cosmopolitan (and the others) feed you, then you will end up believing that the only things that matter in life are how your body looks and how to sexually please a guy. So If you subscribe to this bollocks then yes, you will find it hard to believe that other girls are not the enemy.
Men compete by being the "better hunter" and "better provider" of security for both the female and their offspring. Because men don't carry the gestating fetus - and the fact that they have had to learn to bond with other males for better hunts, they may feel the pain of intense jealousy - but it hits them in a different way - they often will have an angry - maybe physical - confrontation with the winning male - which is typically brief - they tend to blame themselves for not having greater competitive skills - or they re-evaluate the female in her choice - if he sees his opponent as somehow inferior. She then becomes less attractive to him, and the jealousy subsides. This is where the adage guys give to each other over losing out on a prized female: "Brother, no matter how hot she is, some guy, some where, is getting tired of her." Women innately are wired to look for characteristics in a male that will ensure her security, security for her child, and optimum health for her offspring as well - intelligence is also greatly prized since it is directly related to males capable of garnering greater resources for the family - most of this is unconscious and hard wired by evolution into our brains - and this is a very general, sweeping statement. The in-fighting among females is usually a result in the availability of so few males that meet the ideal - women have a much greater investment in their selection of the male that will father her offspring and provide security for her and their development. Good-looks in makes attest to physical health - another strong asset in producing healthy offspring. So much for romance. ;-)