Love yourself; we are usually are own very worst critics - we would never speak to a friend or to anyone the way that we " self talk" to ourselves. Yes, leave the house always looking your best, know your strengths, and try to overcome your weaknesses. Be the best "you" that you can be. Make opportunities to help others, either in a volunteer capacity or with your own friends. Shift the focus to others in your life and you will become the confident,loving, caring person that I suspect you already are!
Confidence is something that you will acquire as you grow and mature while accomplishing things. Certainly everyone has skills and attributes that will help with the process. Even when a person does not feel they are as good at something as another person, they can build confidence in themselves by simply believing in yourself and having the personality to let others believe in you also.
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Last edited at 2:54PM on 8/26/2011
i think the best way is that: you shoud try to be alone in your works and actions ... this help you to find different ways to arrive all answers of life...! but you should choose best one of them...just this can help you... its better to know that we are the best person for solve own problems...! this is confident...
Make sure that you like the way you look before leaving your house each day. Invest in a few really nice confidence building outfits. Have your hair styled by a professional and put your best face forward. When you go out into the world each day you should feel that you are looking great and your self confidence will be enhanced.
If one is lucky enough to know of their actual fears and want/need to believe our Creator - then their prayers will be answered in time. My experience has been: overtime i developed a willingness to admit my flaws, ask for God's help, turn it over to him, root out my resentments (they take a lot of productive energy holding on to them), identify my actual fears, share my troubles with others, ASK HIM to remove these flaws, own up to my mistakes to others that i'b been trying to control around me, make it right with them, and then be willing to give to others what i RECEIVED. That is actual confidence i think. I hope this helps answer your question...God bless
We are who we are TODAY because we subconsciously remember who we were YESTERDAY. To become confident requires a reidentifying with oneself. Try pretending that you ARE a confident person. Play it out daily in your interactions with other people as if you were an actor in a movie. Soon you WILL become more confident. It is amazing how well this works. Remember, it is NOT a crime or a sin to LOVE yourself. You must love yourself before you can effectively love others. Our self perceptions are learned, they are not innate. Our self perceptions can be UNLEARNED. Lack of confidence stems from an inner belief that you are worth less than others. This you "learned" at some time in your life, probably in childhood. It CAN be unlearned. Try this method and over time you will become more confident.
Practice makes perfect...don't keep mentally going over the negatives. You can't swallow an elephant whole...but you can if take it bite by bite. Confidence is a growing process...similar to a child learning how to ride a bike. Sooner or later, the training wheels come off after many times of falling down and getting back up...and then its, "look, no hands"!....
Whenever you face a difficult moment and mishandle the situation, you will know better for next time. Knowing your strong and weak points is a huge part of becoming confident; once you acknowledge those points you know your limits and feel more comfortable in your skin.
The power of the human mind is immense. What you think you create. How you think and feel within yourself is how you affect the world around you, that has an effect back onto you. Have the common sense to realise that confidence not only comes from within but in how you act and react around others, for how they act and react reflects back onto you.
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Last edited at 6:53PM on 8/27/2011
Confidence is a part of pride. Pride starts and ends with your physical posture. When you walk, "swagger" or "strut" in your own unique style.
You get your own style by finding and standing by what makes you special, which will come through in the end.
Also, the most powerful weapon you wield is silence. If you think *SILENCE* it will be stressful and you will talk. If you think about your speciality silently in your mind, you will become more powerful.
In my experience, confidence comes from success, or harmless failure. If you try something you are a bit scared of, and succeed, you lose some off that fear. If your fail, but the consequences are not significant, you are likely to lose fear as well. This is why age/experience tends to help.
True confidence can only come from the God of the bible, the creator, the one who made everything. The question then becomes, do you know Him? Have you truly had an encounter with the Son of God, Jesus Christ? Was there a place and time that you asked Jesus to come into your life and make you a part of the family of God? If not, just admit to God that you are a sinner, and that you would like to receive His forgiveness right now. Then you shall have true confidence.
by simply believing in who you are, your abilities and knowing how much capable you are, you can become confident like i am! its simple; never underestimate yourself dear. remember everyone is capable and has God gifted abilities.