So you are married to a man who wants to go to a nudist colony with another woman? Why wouldn't he go with you? This is weird. If you are married, he shouldn't be going with another woman. This to me seems like permission to cheat.
Hi Vienvet, Welcome to Ask. You certainly knew how to generate interest with your first question.
You profile gives no information so it's impossible to make informed comments about your situation, but it sounds as though you and your husband may still be fairly young.
He's certainly immature. Men like looking at female bodies. Why wouldn't we? It's a built-in reflex. But we also know how to restrain ourselves -- and we know when it's inappropriate.
If he insists on going it might be a good idea for you to go too -- that way you can keep an eye on him. If you're embarrassed about shedding your clothes, nobody can force you to take them off, although it's generally considered discourteous to be clothed at a nude beach.
It's likely to be a bit disappointing for him because most of the bathers will be male, middle-aged, and out of shape. It isn't much like the way some people glamorize them. But it doesn't have to be seedy and it can be very pleasant, and even liberating, once you get past the initial reluctance. And, in case you were going to ask, yes, Daizy and I spent a couple of summers doing it that way.
Should you let him go on his own with this lady? Only if you're the kind of woman who leaves a 4 year-old child in the kitchen with lots of sweets and cookies and tells him not to eat them.
Your husband is like that little kid. If he gets hungry he's going to snack.
if I was you, I would Freak out...Do you 2 go to Nudist Camps Before??? Out of the Blue Request from Him.....If you and him have never been, are not in an Open Relationship...Then if i was you I would Hit him over the Head with a Giant Frying Pan.....
Let him. Apparently you've never heard the horror stories coming from nudist colonies? Do yourself a favor, go to Walmart; now picture all the shoppers naked... and see how fast you run screaming from the building-- you'll be lucky if you don't puke on your penny-loafers. *That's* what your guy will see at a nudist colony. It ain't pretty. Sags, bags and onion patches.