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My best friends ex wife contacted me. She admitted shes always had a "thing" for me and....

... was wondering if I would like to explore where it might go. Id love to, but I dont want to hurt and lose my best friend that I've known most of my life. Ive always had a thing for her too though. Shes beautiful, has a great personality, and quite honestly, it was my friends fault that their marrage didnt work. We never said anything, but theres always been this "thing" this "unconscous attraction" between us that was hard to ignore, though we always did ignore it. It was one of those "ya just know its there" kinda things. You know, The accidental continuation of looking into eachotheres eyes for a couple seconds longer even though the conversation had ended (before we realized we were doing it...then looked away) , stuff like that.. Im 36 and would love to find someone and fall in love, and I could see that happening with someone like her. This sucks. He's my only real, lifelong friend. But I would like to be happy with someone, and this may be my chance, but at a great loss as well. What would you do

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Bros before hoes. How do you know shes not using you for rebound? Patience your girl will come

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My husband said bros before h03s

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Don't do it. You'll lose your friend. Think about how awkward it would be when you go out somewhere with your friend. It's really not worth it. I know that it may seem that you're getting too old, but you have to think about what else is out there

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I'm not sure but I think it may be hard to continue being his best friend either way. There is a lot of stuff there. Is it at all possible that he knew about "the attraction"? It just seems a little shady to pick up your best friends ex (but not that uncommon) but love has a way of creeping in and clouding better judgement.

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Agree with you on this one! Lol
Gotta give you a Greenie!
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Stay true to your friend and let her know the reason you won't go any further with her.
Flip the situation and think how you might feel if your friend started dating one of your ex's. If you choose to go out with her then he may be your best friend, but you weren't much of a friend in the end.

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It will be very difficult, you will lost your friend over this. If you still have that friend while you be with his ex, it sounds won't work well as you will be the person put them together. Or he will be between you of two. It seems you can only choice one.

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