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love9210
love9210: 9 months ago

Should i break up with him?!?!?

My best friend likes my boyfriend what do i do...?

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Zoey1230
Zoey1230: 8 months ago

Well, did your best friend like your boyfriend before or after you two got together? If it was before and you knew that she liked him, and you respect her, break up with him. He won't be worth it in the long run. But if she liked him while you two were dating, that's her problem. Just don't let a guy come in between a good friendship. It will NOT be worth it. Chances are, he's not "the one" anyways, and you'll end up losing a good friend (which are hard to find) and being single. Good luck, choose wisely. :)

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OrlandoLover
OrlandoLover: 9 months ago

Don't break up with him! If you really like him, don't. Your friend needs to find someone else :)

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joanie46: 9 months ago via iPhone
I totally agree. It's like back off babe, find your own man!
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OrlandoLover: 9 months ago
Lol exactly! ;)
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rainbowloverXD
rainbowloverXD: 9 months ago via iPhone

Heck NO!!!!!!just cause ur friend likes him doesn't mean u have to dump him! If it was backwards ur friend wouldn't dump him!!!

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joanie46: 9 months ago via iPhone
What is she thinking? Dump the friend!
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rainbowloverXD: 8 months ago
ikr
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CountryGirl_Pride
CountryGirl_Pride: 9 months ago

Really!? Do you really like him? Why do you think you should break up with him? If you're questioning this, then maybe you should. O.o

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joanie46: 9 months ago via iPhone
I know, sounds like something's "up".
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guitarman1223
guitarman1223: 9 months ago via iPhone

Umm, no! Hes your guy, don't give up on him just cuz your friend has a crush on him

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joanie46: 9 months ago via iPhone
Someone thump her on the head. It's her guy!
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jennifer108
jennifer108: 9 months ago

If you still like your boyfriend you shouldn't break up with him just because she likes him. Also it's not like he'd go out with her anyway. If she is asking you to then she is not a good friend

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joanie46: 9 months ago via iPhone
I couldn't agree with you more. With friends like that, who needs enemies?
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jennifer108: 9 months ago
Right!
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lenastar99
lenastar99: 9 months ago

He doesn't like her right?

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apersonthatisunknown
apersonthatisunknown: 9 months ago via Android

your friend needs to move on!! dont do break up! if she goes after him she isnt a friend, lesson learned. dont let him go single. but dont be with him cause of that.

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XxvalbotxX: 9 months ago via Android

No! don't breakup with YOUR bf just because ur friend likes him that's not right! you were going out with him first...

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ele14
ele14: 9 months ago via iPhone

Um....NO!!!!

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softbaluver7
softbaluver7: 9 months ago via iPhone

I think you shouldn't .. You had him first.. But if she liked him before you did then that's a different story .. But I say no..!! stay with him.

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Macmeup
Macmeup: 9 months ago

Stop being friends with her and if you know she really likes your boy she will break the girl code to get this boy

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NinjaBurger
NinjaBurger: 8 months ago

only if u dont like ur bf, but if u do then tell him what he feels then u'll know the answer

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kitty_kat28
kitty_kat28: 8 months ago

No your best friend will just have to get over him and she will because she is your best friend

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adam2992
adam2992: 8 months ago

if you want to im open if you need to talk

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Erica_Hutcherson
Erica_Hutcherson: 8 months ago

No! Get her to talk to you and have a nice heart to heart conversation. say oh I dont know... Hey chick he is mine and if you like him than take it over there where I dont have to see it please. Now I am going to go hang out with MY boyfriend and you can like him from a far far far away place. If it seems mean than do what you want but I would say that because when it come to guys and cheating I can be a real B****

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klovee
klovee: 8 months ago

no! you had him first

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naturegirl2
naturegirl2: 8 months ago

If you like your boyfriend and he likes you then no <3... your best friends will still like you even if they like him!

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meaganmeagan
meaganmeagan: 8 months ago

Ok. Thatd be wrong to break up with your boyfriend if your bestfriend likes him. Cause most likely, they'd go after him if you let him go. And anyways, girl code. No liking the bestfriends man.

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justinwd1
justinwd1: 8 months ago

No, don't break up with him, it's not his fault she likes him. If anything talk to your friend and see if she will back off. But if you truly like him, don't break up with him

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Beatlebud
Beatlebud: 8 months ago | Last edited at 6:20PM on 9/13/2012

If your friend is really your friend she wouldn't tell you she likes him. She also would put you in this position. She basically asked you to break up with him. If you really like him keep him. Chances are you break up with him and he doesn't even like her. Stay with him. If she's really your friend she'll let you be happy(:

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