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Me and my Bf have been together almost 2 years now, we no longer use condoms and we have only a few times in the beginning of our relationship. He have moved from place to place and yesterday i noticed he has condoms. this panics me, i know there not being used on me and i cant remember if there the ones from the beginning of our relationship. part of me says they are but part of me is saying there not. i don't know if i should not say anything and i don't know why he is keeping them. why didn't he throw them away when he moved, why take them with him? and another thing panics me is i think there should be more there. i dont know how to feel

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Yeah, that's a tough one. The mature thing to do would be to talk to him about it, but how would you know if he's being honest when he tells you why he has them? Maybe you could count them, wait a few days and then count them again. If you find fewer than before, throw it in his face, and kick him to the curb.

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"Maybe you could count them"

Haha I was thinking the same thing!
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ahah i counted them this morning
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You should not overlook this. Just ask him, "why did you keep these?" Don't accuse him of anything.

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If you've been together 2 years ... you should be able to ask him.

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Thats a big deal because your having unprotected sex ... He can still get a disease with a condom with other people

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Ask ; ,

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Say something dont overlook it. i doubt if they're condoms from the last time yall used them dont be in denial. If ur bf cheating in time it will come out. God is always showing us things we need to see thats y u saw them condoms

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I don't see him cheating, it just paniced me finding them and if he is i hope i do find out!
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He paid money for them, why should he throw them away, you might decide you want him to use it ... but watch for the expiration date.

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thats the way i was thinking about it, like why throw them out but then i paniced and thought why keep them
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Check the expiration date, if they're old, buy him a brand new box of "specialty" condoms. Wait a week and look to see if the box is open.
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when unpacking i found a box of condoms in a bag but they had been from a family friend and said cant forget the most important thing, and he threw those ones away, so that also confuses me. and tha'ts a good idea,
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I hadn't thought about checking the date. Good idea.
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the year on them is 2013, if he bought them recently wouldn't they be like 2015
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I would say something. If you are not using them, then why does he have them? Really you two should be using them unless you can afford to have a child.

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CrazyBear

I wouldnt say anything because if he's a cheater he's a liar
Count the condoms when he isnt around and see if the number stays the same.

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CrazyBear
Weird but that's how I knew my ex was cheating on me
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really, and awee
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CrazyBear
But I doubt your bf is because some people just dont throw things out
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hope your right, and thanks:)
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