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Hi. Another question here. I am bulimic, anorexic, depressed, hyper-sensitive, and i cut. What should I do? I need help!

Like I said I am; bulimic, anorexic, depressed, hyper-sensitive, and i cut. Whenever I eat, which is rare, I throw my food back up. Sometimes I don't even eat at all. Also, I can break down crying any second. Anything can set me off, even the slightest thing. When something bad happens I cut my wrists and it helps. I really need someone to talk to but I don't know who? If my parents find out they will kill me, so I can't tell any teachers or my guidance councilor because they will tell my parents. I also think I might be bipolar. Am I? What should I do???
~Stay Strong~

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Group therapy. Also volunteering at a nursing home or adopting a couple of seniors.
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It will do you good and them good to have a visitor. You might be surprised at how entertaining and interesting they are. Also, when you see an old person near the end of their life who cannot eat, for example, it might give you a different perspective about yours.
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Helping someone else is always a good way to feel better. It will lift your spirits.
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You are going to have to start eating in order to live. And you need to take vitamins with what food you do eat in order to feel better.
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Best wishes! Group therapy, for sure. It can be a mixed group, but you will most likely meet other cutters there.
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Something bad happened to you that you had no control over. You are doing these hurtful things to try to be in control but it does not help make you feel better, does it?

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it does right when you do it, but after the sensation goes away it hurts and you are bleeding... and thanks. i will try it.
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Really? I hope so. I feel for you kid.
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I know someone who went to group therapy. They had post traumatic stress disorder but the group was all sorts of people, including cutters. They said it helped them.
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If you had someone to call when you felt like cutting, that would be a positive thing. Sort of a sponsor.
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Go get help.

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You need to tell someone. Your parents won't kill you, I was also anorexic, bulimic, and a cutter, and my parents didn't kill me when they found out. And now I'm a lot healthier and I'm doing better. Start with telling a school counselor, and let it go from there. Plus, my school counselor asked me if she could tell my parents before she did anything.

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i also have suicidal thoughts, but last night when i said i was going to kill myself my mom yelled REALLY bad and grounded me till monday. therefore im afraid she really get mad if she finds out bout this other stuff?
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i also have suicidal thoughts, but last night when i said i was going to kill myself my mom yelled really bad and grounded me till monday. therefore im afraid she really get mad if she finds out bout this other stuff? my parents over react to everything... also do you think im bipolar?
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i also have suicidal thoughts and last night when i said i was going to kill myself my mom got really angry and grounded me till monday. therefore im afraid of how she'll react if she finds out about this other stuff :(
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i also have suic**** thoughts and last night when i said i was going to k**l myself my mom got really angry and grounded me till monday. therefore im afraid of how she'll react if she finds out about this other stuff :(
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Well hun, it's either get help, or die. Eating disorders kill. I wasn't close to death with my eating disorder, but I know someone who was.
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okay, thanks for the help... i will try to tell someone at school on tuesday...
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Another good answer! Green.
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You need serios help go see a shrink that is not normal unless you are trying to have attencion from people. Good Luck Be Bless

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It's only a ticking time bomb if help is not served.

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Well first please get help!! I am a recovering cutter. And as far as the eating disorders, if you do not get that taken care of YOU WILL DIE. I do not know what is going on in your life but if it is having this much of an effect please tell someone. If you have a best friend, or a boyfriend/girlfriend. It is important. I have met people who have eating disorders and they just waste away and even when they get help, it is so much harder. As far as being bipolar, that needs to be decided by a doctor. I have Bipolar Disorder, and Borderline Personality Disorder. I hope you find someone that you can talk to because if not then...It will soon be over.. Just stating the truth.

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thank you. i will try but it IS hard :(
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My best friend has they same problems and everyday she just waste her life away and if i can help at least one person, then i have had a great day. If you need anything just let me know. It sounds like you probaby will not be able to handle this by yourself. May an inpatient or residental facility may help.. I have been to them and once you have stated that you have a problem {Which you have} it makes it a whole lot easier.. I wish you all the best luck if you need anything just look me up...
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okay, thank you :)
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Very nice answer. Green.
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Don't let others bring you down. I let that happen to me for a while, it only makes it worst. I agree with what cyber_sense said about the group therapy. It works great especially when you are with a bunch of people with different issues. If you like to draw or write, that is a great way to express yourself.
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You are all these things, including anorexic, but in your last question, you said that you are hungry even after you eat. So what is it? Do you eat or not eat? I think both your questions are fake. I think asking these kind of questions and your picture adds up to attention-seeking behaviour, which is never too nice.
Don't post fake questions. It demeans people who really have problems and need help.

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i didn't! when i DO eat i'm still hungry afterwards. but that is not all the time cuse i only eat sometimes. when i DO eat, which is rare, i will eat something like spaghetti o's and some crackers and im still hungry. otherwise i dont eat at all.
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i didn't! when i DO eat i'm still hungry afterwards. but that is not all the time cuse i only eat sometimes. when i DO eat, which is rare, i will eat something like spaghetti o's and some crackers and im still hungry. otherwise i dont eat at all.
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You know what. Whatever. I hope you will be happy when i k**l myself and your comments were the last ones i read. I hope you will be satisfied. It is people like you who make me have these issues. So goodbye, and when i die... i hope you feel like you have accomplished something. :(
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Call a hotline like the suicide hotline, there is a teen hotline, maybe call a friends patent to talk to if you really feel you can't talk to your own parents. Get help quickly

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If you really need help, you will tell your guidence counselor and get your parents involved.

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OK, here's the up and up. U seem to be a masochistic sort of person, confused and crying out for help. you can go to a private counselor or find a guy who will put up with that for the first few weeks and slap you into line for the rest of the relationship (not physically abuse you but tough love and loving guidance) if that doesn't help... well... I'm sure that should do the trick.

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TALK to YOUR PARENTS......................

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