I've been hanging out in my garage a lot lately. i think I'm starting to look like my Harley Davidson. I'm certain the correct answer to you Q can be found on the genetic/behavioral aisle. Having read the question and and all the comments and answers, here's my reply: i don't condemn you for your infidelity, although I'm not condoning either. The problem comes when you are about to deceive the people who you should love the most. Your husband and your new born son. You are a gutless wench. You screwed around, and now your about to cop out on paying the piper. I think you husband needs a check up from the neck up too.
No, how a child looks is all decided before he or she is born. However people see things that others don't. If you were to adopt a child they can look like your or others in your family without being blood related. So like I said it is just how others view it.
If and when the 'dad' finds out the truth, all hell will break loose. It's better to be honest and face the consequences now than to mislead everyone involved. The longer it goes on, the worse it will be.
Yes, sort of. Your kids usu show a little bit of you in their looks, both parents. It's when they begin mimicking you that it becomes more noticeable. The way they walk & talk, their thoughts & opinions too. esp as they get older. Most women will tell you that eventually, one day, you look in the mirror & see your mother.