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What's the point in cheating?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 10 months.. I'm not friends with him on Facebook.. because he always makes one and deletes it like a month later .=. I went to go add him and it said he was in a relationship with some other girl .-. And he has never even met this person in real life.. un-like me and him.. We go to the same school and ride the same bus .-.

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There is only one happiness in life, To love and be loved........well honey...this is world...everyone living life with different masks...we all have ...n ur boy friend too..when he meets u ..he wear 1 mask...and while on fb ...he wears another 1... so smart gal...gv little more time to ds spying...wd in few days..u wl get the answer by urself...and then understand the help provided to u well in time by nature..by Almighty God... wish u true love in coming days...stay blessed

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Wow i love all the answers you give
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This is my cell 1619-870-4080 and I'm really happy your safe i was so worried about you its been over a month that i haven't heard from you its nice to have you back eaglet
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thnx hawkman...happy to see u too...stay blessed
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How can i delete my number now
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Well if he hasn't met her he isn't actually cheating it's Facebook not reality

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They telling each other they love each other.. and all.. not like it's just a facebook fake relationship thing...
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It's called a long distance relationship.........
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He hasn't met her so what relationship can there be
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He is in a long distance relationship with her... Yes, its technically not a real relationship.. but he is cheating... you don't go and date someone and then go on Facebook ask someone else out... behind that persons back.. it's called cheating....
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Lol So he's cheating & you're asking this why I mean at least call him your Ex boyfriend right
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All I asked was... why cheat.. I wasn't looking for any responses on the description thing... and I called him my boyfriend because I was talking to the girl that said he was in a relationship with to confirm it and then broke up with him.. There you go judging before knowing...
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Everyone judges without knowing even you
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I used too..... until like 2 years ago.. Now, I'm smart enough to look at all the point of views before saying things...
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the point is its only natural its something every human dose we always looking ( coming from a former guy)

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I've never cheated and never will.. I tell the person when I don't want to be with them anymore..
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just because u cheat dose not mean u dont want them anymore me and girlfriend are just honest and open about it date 3 different people and they all know and i have a loving relationship with all of them
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Cheating is dating others behind someone's back.. Why would you date someone and then cheat on them with someone else? I don't know.. uh maybe because you didn't love them .-. Open relationships are smart thing to do.. I try to have that with people I'm with.. but he didn't agree with it.. he Said he didn't want to share
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Haha your boyfriend won't even friend you on Facebook?? HMM, that's not too tough to figure out that he's hiding something lol. He's a loser.. Dump him. What's the point? Could it be any more obvious? Because they aren't happy with what they've got & want something new!

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No, we made it a race to see who would send the request first.. he just made that account yesterday .-. and we were happy.. he never acted strange
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Plus, if he wants something new he wouldn't have a long distance relationship.. when all he cares about is cuddling.. and the girl isn't even all that
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Why would he keep deleting it? That's strange. I was saying cheating in GENERAL. And really it's emotional relationships that are even worse than physical ones.
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He deletes his facebook alot because he never even really gets on it... he will make one and then be on it sometimes for a few weeks then never goes on.. So, it gets deleted and he makes a new one
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Why does he make a new one if he already knows that he won't go on it much? T-T
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I don't know .-. He just does because everyone talks about it all the time .-. He is always doing Cross-country and stuff t
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That's weird of him.
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Are girls really as smart as you nowadays??

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Are people really going to judge before knowing nowadays?
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People always judge without knowing that's a fact
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True that
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I don't... I used to... but now, everyone is judging everything I post before knowing the full situation.. they just jump to conclusions.. I mean like this post for instance.... Everyone is talking about the description.. when all I asked was why cheat? .. and people judging that we aren't a loving couple.. and that he should have added me.. when we were going to add each other as a race... we are a loving couple... he has never acted weird around me.. we always hugged and cuddled... and to make insults on me when I did nothing wrong.. I'm not being really that stupid... if you guys didn't assume things... Every single day I get judged before knowing and it pisses me off....
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You're the one who made yourself look bad with that description. You can't blame people for going off of what they're told. You don't want them assuming things? Give a better description instead of blaming them for something that they can't help.
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I didn't know how to word it... When I was typing it none of it would sound right.. and just when I found a way to word it the time thing ran out.. again with the saying before knowing .-. oh man what is the world going to do now
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You ask why cheat and post that description yea real loving..
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I was just asking what's the point in cheating.. I just posted that stuff in the description so everyone understood why I was asking.. So, yeah....
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So yea I'm right in what I said apparently.
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@thebeautiful Okay? Don't blame us because you couldn't figure it out. The stuff in the description is always relevant to the question. If you don't want us to comment on it, then don't write it out for us to read. The description is meant to be read.
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I'm not blaming anyone... I just put it because I know someone would end up asking why am I asking this question... besides... this site is to ask a question and get an answer to a question.. and what I meant by asking this question was.. cheating shouldn't even exist... if you don't want to be with someone tell them.. not go and date someone else behind their back
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Sweetie even after 10 months you have seen what type of games he play. If after finding this out ask yourself do I deserve better? If you want this type of treatment then stick around but if you feel your worth more, then let it go! Trust me you have to be the one who says enough is enough! There are some good guys out there who don't play the silly games. So know what you want sweetie and decide what you don't want! Good luck

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I know.. I left him.. this is the first time he has ever done anything to miss treat me.. There is plenty of guys out there
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Yes indeed and you'll find one who'll treat you better! It's just a matter of time.
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His a loser you can do better

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hi im fine and safe...was on leave...and on leave i don't use Facebook or net...as i want to give undivided attention to my family. hope u also having good time wd ur family..stay blessed always..n do remember me in prayers. :)
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What do you mean on leave are you in the military or vacation.....?
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Bs stop letting him do what he wants the fb stuff is him calling you his trick not trying to be disrespectful to you but that's what it mean he don't care for you enough to add you on fb an claim you as his woman then you need to find some one better 10 mouths of that is not worth it sorry babe

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... he just made that account yesterday.. and we made a deal to see who can add each other the fastest... and when I got on his page it said they were in a relationship.. We hang out almost all the time.. and we do what lovers do.. So, there is no saying he never cared for me.. when all he did in the whole relationship was do whatever it took to make me happy
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