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MrNibbles: 9 months ago

Someone told me that in order for me to talk to a cute girl, i also need to be as good looking. Is that true?

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SammW: 9 months ago

You don't have to feel you are equal in looks to talk to a girl. But, how old are we talking about? Because lets face it. At certain ages looks matter a great deal. As people mature then they start to find their own identities and start looking for like people. Looks becomes somewhat less important and personality traits become more important. A good point to keep in mind would be do you think you are equal to her in personality at all? The majority of the time people want to date people that are similar. So if she is all about goth and you are all about jock then she may not find you appealing to her. Most importantly, be you. And don't try to change that for any girl. Not every girl will find you appealing. And you don't want to have to be someone different to please her. You can only do that for so long before the real you comes out. You don't want to be with any person that doesnt like YOU for YOU. If that is the case here then keep looking. She isnt bad for not being attracted to you. She just isn't the right girl. Just as you aren't attracted to all girls. All girls aren't right for you either.

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LaurenJacqueline: 9 months ago

Well for most girls ya. :(

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MrNibbles: 9 months ago

i agree with you :/

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Cali_Kid: 9 months ago

Y y'all sad for?

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LaurenJacqueline: 9 months ago

It's kinda messed up. I don't really care how they look

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demonprincess: 9 months ago

me neither

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sunshine_gurl: 9 months ago

Not really , but It sometimes help to gain their attention

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carlos22541: 9 months ago

Yes

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Cali_Kid: 9 months ago

Your only as good as you can get
Think about that an take it as u may

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MissLovelyDimples091: 9 months ago

Yess;/

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demonprincess: 9 months ago

so not true

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luver101: 9 months ago

nope

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beytheleg: 9 months ago

No, I don't think so. It's about confidence. And isn't everyone appealing in their own way? I like to think so.

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iHateYouxx: 9 months ago

not to talk to them. You don't need to be good looking to talk to a cute girl but dating them is a different story

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RogerBeckett: 9 months ago

thats good,i hate you.One main thing is to be very neat in appearance.Very clean.Try to get to know things about the girl you want .If you know what she likes first,you can make inroads right there.I would find out all i can about the girl you want,then be bold and step right up.

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Aztecs2010: 9 months ago via Android

to talk to a cute girl and want her to like you FOR WHO YOU ARE then just be yourself DONT try to be someone your not... be you from day 1:)

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Pretty_Nerd_Swagg: 9 months ago via iPhone | Last edited at 4:47PM on 9/2/2012

If You Want To Talk To A Girl That You Like, You Have To Look Fresh && Clean. (A Little Tip: Girls LOVE Guys That Smell Good) Your Outfit Has To Be Nice && Cool. Everything Have To Be On Point (Just Enough To Get Her Attention)

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MrNibbles: 9 months ago

so i HAVE to look good
and my clothes HAS to be cool?
i guess so

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Pretty_Nerd_Swagg: 9 months ago via iPhone

If You Want To Get Her Attention. You Have To Put Some Effort In It.
#Girls101

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chavezfan: 9 months ago

It's stupid, but true. It's how most girls' messed up minds work. I don't get why they won't even respect you if you're not attractive - which is something you CAN'T CONTROL.

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Panda_sweetie_05: 9 months ago

For most girls yes but I really don't care how they look

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apersonthatisunknown: 9 months ago via Android

unfortuntly yes, but you have nothing to worry about!(;

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SkylerA: 9 months ago

No. I think sweet guys r just as attractive. I normally go for sweeter guys than super attractive guys because normally the attractive ones are jerks.

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jordan415: 9 months ago via Android

Sometimes yea but only when talking to the really shallow girls. Shallow girls should best be avoided though haha

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CheleDean: 9 months ago via Android

welll not reallly some girls are often looking for a guy with good looks then some girls juss don't look at the guys looks they usually looking at a Guy with a good personality and etc... not always there looks

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sophie_was_here: 9 months ago

Not always. It doesn't really matter. But it does matter what the girl thinks though.

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ThisFabulousKilljoy: 9 months ago

If the girl is shallow and full of herself, then yes. But take a chance and go for it!! Because, honestly, many girls WOULD talk to you. Best of luck!

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bluedemon: 9 months ago

Man don't listen to dumb this like that I'm fat and my girl is hot just talk to them it's not hard

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kitty_kat28: 9 months ago

Well in some cases but not always depends on how bitchy she is lol

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BridgettedgafGarza: 9 months ago

No Wtf? Lmao . Girl's Love Getting Compliments From Cute & Not So Cute Guy's ;D

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MrNibbles: 9 months ago

ok um you are pretty :O
there i think i gave you a compliment lol

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SaveAnimals: 9 months ago

I don't think so. I just think that u've gotta be urself, buddy

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Johnsama123: 9 months ago

I honestly dont think so if you be yourself things should go over great.....if she cant accept you for who you are inside than she doesnt deserve you.....good luck

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Allabella: 9 months ago

No of course not. Anyone can talk to a cute girl.

Also, people have different defintions of cute. I know a cute girl and she doesn't matter about appearance

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rileynance24: 9 months ago

no well only stuck up snobs ( like some girls ) think that

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luver101: 9 months ago

lol yep

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rileynance24: 9 months ago

yea

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aec98: 9 months ago

uh no but you have to be cute

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demonprincess: 9 months ago

i say no because it only matters about your personality

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kikiandtotoro: 9 months ago | Last edited at 3:52PM on 9/6/2012

Nope ;) Only snobby Stuck up girls care about looks...

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RejoiceAlways517: 9 months ago

You said it better then I could.

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jamesbbrown: 9 months ago

Yes that is true!

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luver101: 9 months ago

wtf no its not

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SavannahHutcherson: 9 months ago

It depends on the girl.

A tip: Don't be nervous to talk to her. Go right up and act confident.

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6foot: 9 months ago

That totally BS!
if a girl blows you off just because you may not be as cute as other guys she is a total bitch. Any girl who is worth you time will take the time to get to know you before she makes any decisions

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prettyravegirl31194: 9 months ago

Nah just be urself. honestly if they blow u off it wasnt worth trying for to begin with. we like confidence. as long as u make an effort to look good then ur headed in the right direction

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lexi1994gra: 9 months ago

Nope
Be yourself

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grfreind2: 9 months ago

sometimes but not always

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hashtaglareseaprobs: 9 months ago

no just be nice and DONT talk about her boobs:)

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vkypsh: 9 months ago

my friend in indian point of view money is much important then look................

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luver101: 9 months ago

nope

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ButchFlowers: 9 months ago

Just need confidence.

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naturegirl2: 9 months ago

no... you just need a kind personality that is as good as her looks :)

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CayneMD: 9 months ago

Unfortunately in most cases yes. Story book relationships and confrontations between the opposite sex are called "story book" for a reason, sadly.

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Giqqles420: 9 months ago

lmfao yea you do lol

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majesticunicorn: 9 months ago

not at all but it helps

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peggylicious: 9 months ago

looks don't make a perfect lover but words that you use will always attract that cute girl no matter how cute she is......WORDS FROM A GUY'S MOUTH is a key to a woman's heart

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tajeisawesome: 9 months ago

1) If a girl is pretty with a nice attitude and personality, she will talk to you
2) if a girl is pretty with a nice attitude and she thinks your cute she will make an effort to keep talking to you, and will hope to become good or more than friends
3) If a girl is pretty, and she doesnt know it , she may be to embarrassed of herself to talk to you, so you need to make an huge effort
4) She may be cute with a mean funky attitude
5) GIRLS LIKE GUYS WHO ARE NICE TO THEM!! treat her like shes the only girl in the world , but along with that you have to smell good and look good. Your welcome.

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pinkyberry222: 9 months ago

some girls yeah but most don't care

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gerson2398: 9 months ago

Yeah!

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sarahloo007: 9 months ago

No! Be yourself! If she only cares about looks then she isn't worth it!!!!!!!!!

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Idk123469: 9 months ago

Depends on the girl's personality.

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Plushy: 9 months ago

This is not true. If a cute girl only wants a guy for his looks, she is shameful. A guy may have good looks, but what if he is rude? It is important to have beauty on the inside first and to have beauty on the outside second.
However, do not feel that you need to look good in order to get a girl. Just have a professional look and make sure to be clean.
I hope this helps!

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Brittney17: 9 months ago

pretty much

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rachelfernlovesu: 9 months ago

kinda but really it doesnt matter the girl could think shes ugly and then see a cute guy but if the cute guy thinks hes ugly and then likes the cute girl but the girl thinks shes ugly... well actually not really it goes both waaays it

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