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Is it unreasonable to request that my soon to be ex husband not bring random woman around during his rare visits w/ the kids? It bothers me!

our separation is only about 6 months old and he has moved on very quickly with more than one female. my boys are 4 so they still don't fully understand and I worry how their treated by these women. so far they've met 3!! am I fighting a losing battle? btw I would never introduce a man to my boys unless we were thinking of settling down...

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Rockcrawler is right about having that phrase worked into your separation agreement but just FYI in Virginia it has to come out at final decree. I'm not sure what state you are in but most states only allow it during the separation because once divorced you are technically returned to a single status.

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That makes sense... Thanks!
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No. That's not unreasonable at all. You can even get specific in your decree and request that unrelated females not be in your ex's home when they're in his care during certain hours. Like 8pm to 7am.

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Awesome I didn't know I could do that. Thanks!
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You're welcome. Good luck!
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Not at all

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No, it's totally fine. Dont worry :)

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Nope, your kids, your rules. Your husband didnt carry those kids around for nine months :) tell him how you feel

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That's not unreasonable at all. He's...ridiculous.

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Not at all.... I would do the same thing

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First I would ask him nicely and explain the reasons behind my concern regarding the kids. If that didn't work I would take it to my lawyer. Good luck.

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