If she's talking trash about you then she isn't your friend, you should tell her you know what she's been up to and end the "friendship", 'cause she'll keep doing it if you stay friends with her she will keep betraying you.
If u r going to be nice tell her that you know what she is doing and if she does it more than u won't be her friend and go to an adult to talk to her if u want to be mean well than swear alot in this exact thing above
you ask her and make sure your positive she is before you get mad. if you know for a fact she is, confront her and ask her why. if she doesn't stop than she probably isn't the type of friend you want anyway.
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Last edited at 3:14PM on 8/29/2011
that stinks. well i would keep it simple , don't make a seen*. just tell her that you know and want nothing to do with her any longer. i know its hard to loose a friend, but if she was doing that then she isn't your real friend. good luck!
It all depends on you, I would definitely be honest and let your friend know who told me the trash, what trash was said and then let her know that what she said hurt you. If she is a true friend she will be able to talk to you about it. But she would not expect you to bring it to her. Don't be immature and talk trash about her, it only adds fuel to the fire. But just relax and think it out first. I have done this many times, it can help, and then it can also stop you guys friendship, because your calling them out. But then the next question if she really your friend, why would she do something that would hurt you?
If this is a close homegirl then you need to confront her and hear what she has to say...don't let some he say/she say break up a close friendship but if this is just some girl you know from school or around the way and you can BELIEVE the person that told you this stuff then keep it to your self...that way you got the upperhand by knowing she's a backstabber...you know not to be too comfy with her and def keep her out of your biz.