Am I too nice?
Often i feel like im way too nice to people. and most of the time i'm the one that ends up getting screwed over. i mean, im not a total wuss.. i would defend myself in a fight.. and its not like i get picked on or anything. but im still too nice in my opinion. for example today, i got a chair to sit down at a table in class.. and some other guy took it. i told him "yo i just took that seat".. waiting for him to be kind and give it up.. but he just said "well i got it now" and he sat down. and i let it slide.. i was like alright whatever.. and i got a new one. not that it was a BIG deal.. nor was i going to argue or get into a fight over a seat. but there were people around aswell .. and i still ended up looking like a fool..at least to myself. i felt like i shoulda insisted harder. and i just got angry at myself. i feel like people can just sense that im nice.. and screw with me on purpose. am i too nice? i mean should i have shoved him or something?