First of all, why would you have sex of you know how babies are made? Wait let me correct that, why would you have UNPROTECTED SEX if you know how babies are made? And if I see this"I'm on the pill nonsense" then I'll say was he wearing a condom?
A kid isn't a damn towel you can just throw away!!!! Is a life !! A SOUL! it's HALF OF YOU!
With this being said. PLEASE find an adoption center that will find a nice GROWN UP COUPLE that would care for the kid. As for you, please attend church. And get in touch with God and your soul before you have sex again.
Hopefully this is just curiosity. But if you do feel that way fire station is the way to go. Talk to family or minister or social worker or someone first. Adoption is an option if you just can't take care of it. Maybe a family member would be willing.
You should definitely turn to your family for help if you can. Maybe they can help with the child while you get some much needed help. Not wanting your child anymore are very big words. I don't think you mean them. I think you need family, and professional help. Just a good time out to regroup. Good luck.
Oh hon, every mom has felt that way at some point. If you're overwhelmed, get some help. Please talk to your OB or GYN asap! They offer confidential help that will lift your confusion. They also can put you in touch with good people who can help you whatever your decision may be. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
I of course agree with everyone else. Just please don't think of just yourself at a time like this. You sound as if you need someone to talk to. Please don't make any rash decisions that you may regret later.
How would you feel if your flesh, and blood was being raised by someone else? 10 years from now knowing it's your grade schooler, 13 years from now knowing it's you teenager, 16 years from now knowing it's you little driver. 18 years from now knowing it's your little graduate. Get my point? It's yours, it looks like you. It's made from you. Times may be hard now, but hang in there. If you give up now you may never get the chance again. All the above to what everyone else says. But just remember. This child is a gift from our creator, he who will never give up on us.
Find a good family to adopt the child... My heart sunk to see your question. How would it make you feel if the one person in the world that should love you didn't want you? It is damaging. It happened to my friend as a child. She still feels bad about being dropped at an orphanage.
Honeybee, the funny thing that they neglect to tell you in maternity books is that you will feel some resentment. I've had 4 friends have babies in the last year, and all but one has told me at one point that they wish they had never had their baby. They have all come back crying, saying that they have no idea why they would ever say that, they have such perfection. Perfect, crying, puking, pooping, milking, perfection. So if you're having troubles, you should.And I think that you should remember that raising a child is mostly up to you (if you're a single parent), but your community is responsible for taking care of both of you. Ask someone for help. So if you're having troubles, you should. But I've had 2 friends give to adoption, too. Their hearts broke, but they knew that they did the right thing. So I want you to know that is that's what you decide, then that's okay, just make sure it's what's right for you and your baby. Also the lady that's in the top answers is a bitch.
Seriously, I'd take em. I can't imagine not wanting a child. I had 6 (grown now). They are a wonderful blessing in my life...All of them! I was a foster parent for a few years but the system is too corrupt. Whatever you do, don't give them to the state! If I could help anyone I would. firstname.lastname@example.org