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Mar9

How can I make this stop?

EVERYTIME I go to the pool I have these guys in there 20's or late teens trying to either hook up with me or just do stupid stuff. I'm 13 years old! I can't stand it! It really bothers me. How can I stop these jerks from being pervsss?!?!??!!?

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Okay here goes and I SWEAR I DID THIS and it was my dad's idea because he didn't want me to gi through the same thing or be embarrassed by him helping me out of this same thing every day. I was 13 BUT I made a sign that went around my neck with string. On a piece of cardboard about the size of 16 by 18 inches, I wrote on there with big black magic marker," I AM 12 YEARS OLD ! And I wore that sign to the pool and it took ONE DAY for it to work. I picked the age 12 because it sounds worse than 13. ALSO, if someone asked why I was wearing it, I told them my dad MADE ME and that he was a policeman and said it was his job to protect me. Sometimes my dad would tell me to tell them he was sitting in the parking lot in an unmarked car. But the sign written with black magic marker written on cardboard that says you are 12 years old WILL WORK. And if new guys come in, the guys already there will tell them you're only 12. They will stay away thinking they will go to jail. You won't have to wear it more than a few days here and there whenever trouble arises and BE PROUD OF THE SIGN while wearing it. DONT act embarrassed for the joke is on THEM!!!

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My dad was not a policeman ER just said that. You can also say your uncle said to wear the sign or whatever works.
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Good one !
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HappyDaysRhere4Me
Go s
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Just make them feel very embarrassed by telling them your real age

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Mar9
i've tried and they just get even creeper!!
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Wow thats crazy just tell a teacher or somebody in authority
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Good advice
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Give them my number and say its yours... I'l get rid of em

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Mar9
aw tnx! :) haha
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I was serious lol :D
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Mar9
lol. i know.xD hahah
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HappyDaysRhere4Me
Like that southern charm
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Thats what I'm famous for :)
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go to the pool with Chris Hanson from date line NBC

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Mar9
lol
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lol!!!
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Best answer! green!
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awesome punch line...haha
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be assertive

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we meet agai, MOOHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAH
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again lol
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just ignore them They are gonna think your boring or something. if they keep doin it just tell them to stop .

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Mar9
k. tnx
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welcome
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Inform them that its child molesting and is against the law. That should scare them off.If not have your parents informed.

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Mar9
okay. thank you
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wink at them. then ignore them

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Mar9
if i wink then they'll jst like keep on followin me!
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Have you told them you are 13? That usually will do it. If you have and they are still bothering you borrow a friend's big brother is you don't have one of you own and have him talk to them.

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Mar9
I have good protective brothers but there always @ work. no one in my family knows about this. and ya i've tried telling them my age there so creepy they dont care
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Is your dad around? Do you have an older brother or does one of your friends have an older brother? Take someone like this to the pool one day and have him glare at them. Or, just tell these idiots to leave you alone.

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I have good protective brothers but there always @ work. and same with my dad.
I usually like give them the birdy then there like ooo frisky.and get even more annyoing
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if you can't beat them, then befriend them.

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buttercupcake
why would she befriend the people harassing her??
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Lol
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Dont they have a lifeguard tell them

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Try picking your nose if they try to touch you. It turns them off. Saved me from being touched inappropriately at the mall once.

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Mar9
hahaha. okay sounds good:P
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Pervs. Just go to a different pool and never go to that pool again

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Mar9
well thts the thing. its a rly expensive pool and my parents have already paid for it and i don't wanna waste there money..
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In any Tribe there are women, and Warriors. Communicate to yours, per your concerns.

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Tell the lifeguard or who ever is in charge of the pool. A friend's l4 yr old had the same problem and her and her parents went to the pool manager. After observing the pervs and seeing them do the same thing to other young girls they were thrown out and were not allowed to return.

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Okay. Thank you!
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tell someone in your family like your brothers or dad and have them go with you and they will take care of them

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okay. thanks!
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stop goin to the pool you said even the lifeguard whistled at you go somewhere else to swim...i wish i could go to that pool with you i'd get all to stop...

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Mar9
thanks baby! i an't going back anymore! trust me!
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lol ok:) good:)
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Just say "jail bait".

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Hey J you da best
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