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do guys eventually stop being so sleazy?

every time I go out with a guy, all he wants to do is feel me up and make out. unlike everyone else, I refuse to be a slut, so I can't have a long term relationship. I'm in 8th grade, and I was wondering if guys actually mature and will start liking me for me!

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It's hard to find a guy at your age or even 20 years older that truly respect a female for who they are and not just something to play with. But they ARE out there... There are very respectful guys... The problem is that they are extremely extremely rare... I'm lucky enough to have married the most respectful guy I ever ran across... Good luck... Guys your age only typically think "below the belt..."

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That's true
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Umm.... Nope!

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Hahahaha!
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Not true
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I hope not. I make a living in the porn industry. If they stop, I'm out of a job.

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There are some who simply want that, but as early-ish teens, I have to say that most are idiots...

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I agree most are.
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Sounds like u have a good head on your shoulders.

Not all guys are like this. And we do get better as we get older (most of us)

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Unfortunately, there are some which remain this way...
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I hate that I have to put down my own gender, but most men never develop enough maturity to think with anything other than their penis. On the other hand, I know there are plenty of guys who like me know there is more to women than breasts and a vagina.

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Looks like u just date the wrong guys. (picked my wife up with that line lol)

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Nice guys are not rare at all. Girls just find them boring.

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Not always true... There's a huge difference between nice and boring... If a girl finds a guy boring it's because he is boring... Nice doesn't equal boring...
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I agree, but jerks are very rarely boring.
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True... They certainly aren't boring... But too much excitement in usually a negative manner isn't interesting for very long! But I do get your point... It takes a female maturing herself and respecting herself before any guy will respect her... That's why girls usually end up with the jerks... Until they figure things out... Nice guys do ultimately finish last...
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Its good to know that there are girls out there who don't want to be a slut and refuse to be one. I got lucky and found a special guy who is not a jerk and likes me for the person I am; not my body. Any way, I think there are good guys out there, but heck, they are hard to find some times.

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Nice guys are just the shy ones girls don't like Becouse they usually like the popular jock or guy that has alot of girls liking them. Not, the nice guy that likes her but is a little too shy to admit it.
I have the same problem
I am too shy but I would never cheat or lie to my girlfriend!

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You are a rare one... Girls will be lucky to have you;)
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Yeah If only I could get them to notice that!!
I've had 1 girlfriend and she said o was the nicest guy in the world?
Ok, well she dumps me a week later for some jerk.
I mean, really?
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And why would somebody red thumb my comment? Really?
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I have not clue why someone could red thumb you on this. That's crazy. But seriously, girls aren't going to realize what's best for them until they have dated a few jerks... That's when they learn to appreciate guys like you. I know it sucks... But it's true... When girls learn to respect themselves, that's when they finally choose a guy who will respect them... It's a learning process most go through. Just hang on ok? You'll find a good girl soon enough.
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Hopefully lol and whoever red thumbed it, hope it was worth it lol
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I bet you've gotten the old "you're like a brother to me" line, or "what we have is so special, I wouldn't want to ruin it". So, what? What you have with your boyfriends is less special and you decided to ruin it by dating them? Don't worry about it bro. I went through all that nonsense and one day a nice girl found me. Today we are married with two children. Nice guys may finish last, but they finish best.
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