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how do I tell my mom im 14 and pregnant with twins?

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cutsandscars

You're sick. Not because you're pregnant, because you're not. But because you're an idiot. Why would you make this up> If you were far enough along to know you were having twins, she would have noticed by now.

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I am I went to a free clinic and she's never home
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She never home? I have teenagers and I work 10hrs a day. I would
Notice I budging stomach!
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I mean never!!! I'm alone most of the time so I go to my dads
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And I assume your dad hasn't noticed either?
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he knows. and my mother is abusive. towards. me
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Yea and if that was true, your father would have gotten you the hell away from her
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you have a lot of good point cutsandscars
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And if the dad doesn't know about the abuse, then he would have told her about the pregnancy. Hence, obvious, she's faking this whole thing. And thank you guss
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14andpregnate if she is abusive twords you, now is the time to live with dad, if shes abusive with you what chance do you think two babies have
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I'm not faking!!
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he tried
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ok i dont mean to butt in but this comment is getting rediculous.. first off mothers have a huge amount of power when it comes to custody.. dad could easily know about the abuse tro to get custody and still lose.. not uncommon.,. second its also not uncommon for a parent to never be there or involved at all.. especially like the one she described.. third i had a friend who was quite far along in pragnency and because of the way she dressed and carried herself it was super noticeable to people who didnt pay much atention.. so before you bo barating someone on ask over a touchy subject how about you back up a bit and think for a minute that.. yes.. it could be fake.. or it could be somebody who is scared and looking for help.. if its fake and you call her out.. you acomplish nothing.. if its nopt fake and you call her out.. yolur just making a kid who already has a difficult road ahead feel worse.. stop being so dang selfish and acting like a know- it - all
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sorry was NOT super noticeable.. bad typo there
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14andpregnant.. if this is the situation you are in its time to start investing in dad more.. its gonna be tuff but just tell her.. then find where the most stable place will be and do what you can to get there.. hope it all works out for you
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First, how is your mom abusive if you never see her, and second, IF she was abusive why would you want her to know what's going on in your life? Your pathetic
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because she's my mom
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Okay, clearly no one knows what it's like to live with an abusive parent. You don't know what she is going through, and when you, I hope someone comes along and makes negative comments about your life. Her mom may not hit her but there are 2 other types of abuse. So you all need to shut up and grow up before you comment again because you clearly don't know what you are talking about. Sometimes it is hard for another parent to remove their child from an ex'es life because the child is a part of them or they have too much control of a situation. @14andpregnant If you ever need anyone to talk to, let me know. I am here for you, and I understand.
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Actually, I went through 13 years of verbal abuse from my father, and my sister was sexually abused for 4 years So don't tell me I don't know anything about child abuse, because I do.
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thank you anonymousknows.. exactly what iw as saying.. and cuts.. if you understand it so well then back up.. and stop.. jsut as nobody here has the right to say you dont know anything as you put it.. you have no right coming in and telling somebody what is or is not happening in their life.. double standard much? you have no right to come in and say anything negative here..14andpregnant im here to talk to as well.. and anonymousknows thanks for popping in.. nice to see somebody else who isnt a total condecending know it all on this thread
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u don't

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Of she hasn't notice by now she's stupid

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she's never home
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You send her a picture of a pregnancy test that says it is positive and tell her I'm having twins...

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Wow... as long as you know who the father is and he is man enough to take care of it, you should be okay. You should tell your parents as soon as possible because babies take a lot of perpetration.

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Just tell her when shes in a good mood

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Sure, wonder how long it will take her to snap out of it.
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Right at bluesun , I thought the same thing.
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"Mom I'm pregnant with twins." Good luck, you're gonna need it.

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You just need to be honest an come right out and tell her.

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Look into her eyes and say "I'm pregnant with twins." The direct approach is the best way to go and since you can't change it or hide it you might as well tell her. The guy that got you pregnant should tell his parents too.

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How come you know your having twins and you haven't told your mom? If your that far along with TWINS chances are you would be showing... Something tells me your not telling the truth

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I went to a free clinic. and she's never home
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So you haven't seen her in like 2 months? How's that work?!
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What you go to A free clinic have to do with your mom not knowing you pregnant with twins?
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My best friend was so tiny during her pregnancy that she only properly started showing at 4 months. Stop being so damn judgmental!!
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And was your best friend having twins?
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im of the opinion of some of the others, if you knew you were with twins, then she knows or is blind.Oh and im a twin.

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she's never home
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Im not trying to be mean or rude but i was a twin, and i read some of your comments and they dont add up, but if its true dad would know once you went over to his house, and if he knows and isnt upset very much by it take him with you to tell mom
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he refuses to talk /see her
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will your aunt go? or can you move in with dad?
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I'm in the process. of going with my dad
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That would be the best solution in my opinion
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ya i hope so
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Me too, if things are as bad as you say they are, you deserve good luck, Remember this, being a mommy is hard and even harder with twins. Dont be like your mom, change things and be the best mom you can so your kids dont have to suffer. And just so you know i wish you all the like in the world and i would like it if you would update me once in a while, i may even be able to offer a little good advice too.
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I will keep you updated. thanks
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If you were pregnant with twins, it would be evident. So, she must no you pregnant & no idea it's twins, or you don't stay with her.

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You saying she never home and you went alone to clinic. If your mom never see you and you pregnant with twin, chance are your babies will be grown and she still won't notice
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I highly doubt you're pregnant. How would you have an ultrasound done without a parent? And
I'm sure if you were, you wouldn't go on Ask making username about it and bragging about it.....

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I am pregnant. and I took my aunt. on my dad's. side (my parents are divorced)
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Nice try. Above you said you went to a free clinic by yourself.
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What a dake
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CG!!! hoy are ya Ma'am?
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Gussie! I'm good! How are you?
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Wondering how you become 14 and pregnate with twins but mom and dad dont know that you went to a free clinic alone with my aunt.
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Kendra, yeah.....
Gussie: is this what Ask has gone to? :(
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im gussing so, i was a twin, and even if mom was never home and she went to dads, dad would know whaats up.
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gussing lol i meant guessing
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I meant with out my mother
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Sure. Okay. I'll believe it if you post up a picture of your baby belly.
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you kids have too many freedoms, in my day you could never be pregnate with out your parents knowing, unless yiu didnt live with either parent, you could never go to a clinic without a parent, shoot if you looked at a girl your age wrong, you would get whupped, im not saying it never happened it was just a lot rarer than today.
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CountryGirl I just died of laughter LOL
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She lying. Making it up. Unread all her comments and she said she went alone. Now she saying with her aunt.
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I know that's the best part. If you're going to make something up, at least make it a good lie
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Cutsandscars: I make people do that a lot! ;)
Kekikaad: I know.... It's sad....
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i dont see a tummy, maybe im blind
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I don't see anything. Looks like a normal non pregnant stomach. Nice try, again.
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Wow. If she wanted to trick us, she should have at least used a fake picture. She's not even smart enough to do that. How old is she? 12?
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I'm guessing 14... XD
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She could have made that up too
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I didn't I'm having technical difficulty
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I am I'm 8 weeks and am kinda chubby
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if you're only 8 weeks, you wouldn't know you were having twins. So just stop. We all caught you lying, so stop making stuff up as you go
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they are fraternal
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Stop making stuff up. If you are 8 weeks you wouldn't know if you were having twins. go on jerry springer not ask.com.
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yes you would
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no you wouldn't
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yes you would
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you know nothing about pregnancy. You wouldn't be far enough along to know. And why would you fake this? It's disgusting to be pregnant at 14. You should be getting butterflies not pregnant. Which you're not even, so stop lying
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By four weeks, your developing babies will show up on ultrasound as two little gestational sacs. Although you cant see it on ultrasound until around week 6, the amniotic fluid and embryo are inside the entire time. Your babies are developing quite rapidly. During this time, the baby's brain, bladder, liver, kidneys, spine, extremities, reproductive tracts and heart are all beginning to develop. The first time your twins are visible on ultrasound, they will be about 2-3 mm long- which is less than a grain of rice. However, by week 7 and 8, each baby is about the length of two grains of rice . Cardiac activity can also be seen by ultrasound.
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I'm not stupid
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Too bad your fat looks like a baby belly because if you were only 8 weeks with "twins" you wouldn't be showing this soon, so your lying
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some people show sooner then others and especially. with twins
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also. everyones body is different
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Okay so then your not pregnant your just fat.
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I am pregnant !!!!!
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wow
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We already know the truth just admit it.
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its called make him wrap it before he taps it and you should really grow up before you do grown up things

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Little late to criticize, don't you think?
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better late than never:) if she doesn't want criticism she shouldn't put it online
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Ur 14 and 2 babies it means go tell ur mom and go find 2 jobs I'm sorry but ur life is going to change a lot ..

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Make the bf get a job too, he has two kids to support
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like many asked, shoudlnt you be far enough to notice? anyway, how far along are you?

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Hey I suggest tell your parents. I know we all make mistakes but we have to repent & ask for forgiveness. I'll be praying for you. It's all gonna be ok.

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Leave the house. Go live with your dad or friend / cousin someone you can trust , then, when you feel safe. Tell her.

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you tell her you made a HUGE mistake and that you are having twins...if she really loves you and wants what is best for you than she will let you decide what to do...might i suggest an open adoption?

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your welcome...how did you get pregnant
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the. regular. way
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ik...but who is the dad...is he willing to step up and be a dad
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my ex and he doesn't know yet
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mmm...
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u better tell him cuz u dont want to be by yourself if ur mom gets mad
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ok. i will
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hey...ik this may sound weird but if you need anything just trust that little voice in the back of your mind no matter what
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OMG just be honest to her,ignore bad comments above!^

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Yw...btw email me (*brittanydelong63@yahoo.com*)ill give u more advice and stuff,or facebook/twitter @ brittany delong- twitter @ brittany marie delong- fb
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I have 2 teenage daughters your age and I would want them to just tell me... thats the hardest part.. I was 24 when I got pregnant with my first child and I was unmarried and yes I was in my 20's and living on my own but it was the hardest thing for to do to tell my mom and dad, but the fact is you are gonna need all the help you can get, just tell them. It will be better after you do you have enough stress and worry dont let that be another ok. Good luck to you

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Accidents happen. Sit down with her and tell her the truth, she'll be disappointed, yes but she will get over it and love you. If not, tell an adult who you know will support you.

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Just tell her, that's all you can do. But she loves you. If she's a good parent she will be there for you. She'll be upset at first, but she'll help you.

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i dont mean to be rude but why would you have sex at 14? your whole life will be ruined! and dont you know by now... im sorry to sound mean but its true...

anyways, what to do is just be honest and tell her, if things get bad, move in with your dad

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Well find the perfect time to talk to her when shes not nervous if she is abusive invite a family member that you belive you love and talk with her and then with your mom.I hope she'll supports you ,wish you the best

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sit down with your mom and be like mom i gotta talk to you.. im pregnant and not only with one baby but with twins...

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If you haven't told her yet you need to do it now. You have to go to the doctor. Don't think about how mad she is going to be. Think about the your health and the heath of your children.

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i think you are not telling the truth but bless your heart if you are because your life is ruined

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If your mom hasn't noticed yet you must not live with her. You must live with someone else. This sounds like a prank to me but if it isn't, it's best to just straight out tell her. Look into her eyes at a random moment and say, "Mom, I need you to listen and not overreact or anything. Do you promise not to overreact?" When she does, just say, "I'm pregnant with twins." If she cries, cry with her. If she laughs, laugh with her. Repeat her emotions unless she gets angry. I hoe this helps and I really hope your lying because a 14 year old shouldn't be pregnant.

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Have you been to the doctor? Your doctor is there to help you to tell your mother as well that's why they have counselor you are a minor they will help you if can't tell her... Try that they should had not seen you without a ADULT anyway.... But do whats in your heart you are so young ...I hope you are speaking truthfully about this

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Have a family talk. Sit down, get yourself comfortable. If you just can't say the words. . . then you'll have to lift up your shirt and pat your belly and nod your head. Okay, never mind that wouldn't help . XD But just have a family conversation. I hope they understand.

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Pray...

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wait till your somewhere she can't abuse you like in public or something,, and just be like Mom want to live with my dad. and when she is like why tell her that your pregnant. and you think its twins and you don't want to put the stress on her. Make her think it's to benefit her but really its benefiting you. If you just come at her with it shes gonna get mad and start trippin be really calm and stay nice.

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if u want to give it to a good family my aunt and uncle have been trying to get a little child.

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thats a hard one to answer, how many weeks are you?

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Ok. Ur kinda dumb to hav a guy on top of u wen ur pregno. Luv is luv. Sleeping with each other ain't good at 14. U need to tell her. Well, she should've told herself. Ur having twins. Just tell her. Good luck.

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