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How can I keep from being jealous/sad?

okay there is this girl I like and I thought she liked me back. she mentioned me some on Facebook but she did the same with other guy. I just ignored it but tonight she posted one with him at a football game and I felt like I want the only one she was into. how can I not be jealous or should I forget this ever happened?

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you have to gain your own self strength. if you know your a good man you will find someone who will fit to you. jealousy is petty. we re all one. yet each different then another; men talk to women women talk to men everybody has their own beauty. its rediculous when a man or women get jealous when ever they talk to the opposite sex. what are you afraid of.? if shes your women n she chose you then trust in her. people who get jealous can get very mean. it stops a person from being free to be who they are. resentment & hurt take over & happiness soon becomes sadness. nobody owns anybody no body should stop a person from bring who they are. if someone purposely trys to make a person jealous. then that person is not for you they will only cause you pain. get out quick. if a person is just being who they are then trust in them. & who says you have to be with someone forever. be happy with what ever time you got. enjoy the moment. if it doesnt work. know foe a moment you shared a part of each other & you both learned something from your experience. dont be so serious you only have one life. love life sea beauty. & pick her a flower & say thank you. deanna

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get busy and sooner or later you'll forget... keep your head healed high my friend theirs someone out there for you it just takes some time.

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She's not your girlfriend. If you want her to be make the move. I'm guessing she's waiting for you to ask

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No I wasn't blaming her at all or awaiting for her to make a move...I was just asking how to stop being jealous
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I know, I get that. Do you want her to be your girlfriend though? If so ask her out. Okay if you do look at like this-
Right now she's not your girlfriend.
If you ask her out and she's so yes, she's your girlfriend.
If she says no, it's still the same as before.
But you're jealous because you like her. I think you should make the move. Trust me girls are like that, she was letting you know she likes you. Go for it! Nothing to lose, only to gain:)
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Yeah, she kinda lives a couple hours away tho/: but we are trying to hang out tho
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That sucks:/ hope it works out
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Don't be jealous! If a girl you like goes with another guy when she says she likes you then she's not the girl for you. But u have to b careful maybe their just really good friends or something!

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