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How come I always want some and she says no? It's like I am on a monthly limit !

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I wish I knew the answer here. All my girlfriends are reluctant to make love as often as their men would like. Why? Maybe women are geared to have sex to make babies and if we aren't interested in making babies we aren't interested in sex. Don't take it personally, lots of my lady friends say the same thing. On the other hand, sometimes asking isn't the correct approach, ahem, I said the right APPROACH...in other words, don't ask, right. But be sure you remember that "No" means "No" and stop if your approach is not welcome. And remember that females are romantic creatures, so some romance ups the odds...are you listening Jumpin' Jack Flash?

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Got it thanks I shall try the don't ask approach!
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Umm....

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Get better at it

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Couldn't wait to get that answer out huh? What lame answer
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You gotta admit, you did set yourself up perfectly for it.. I was only teasing you. I apologize for making fun of ya
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It's cool I did ... But rest of story is 14 years and 5 kids .../so I don't think it's that kind of problem..I am
Sure I do it right after all these years
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haha, sounds like you should be the one giving HER a monthly limit, my friend
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Lol
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Maybe you aren't the greatest at giving her what she needs :)

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Took alot to think of that answer huh?
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Lol, the way I think of situations like this, is, you are TOO good at pleasing her, that she doesn't "need" it as much as you do!! :)

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Lmao nice cheer up
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Hehe. Can't let you boys lose your self confidence!! :)
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You are just soo sweet arent you lol
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You just don't know me yet ;)
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Thanx
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I would like to
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Maybe she doesnt like you asking for it. Maybe you guys arent meant for each other. You never know if she is using that as a means to control you. You might want to talk to her about it before you start stepping out to meet your needs. That would NOT be a good thing.... but people seem to do it more and more often.
Open the lines of communication FIRST.

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14 years and 5 kids ...not ment for each other? I don't think that's it
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never know. you're on here complaining instead of communicating with him.
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her
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Wow...0_o

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Haha idk man, maybe there's something wrong! :)

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I think 5 kids and 14 Years is what's wrong
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They have surgery for that -- makes them a V
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Haha oh gosh! :)
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Yeah I go cut 3 months ago
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Wow
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Maybe your not making it to the plate -- or your bat is to small and or you need to work on your swing -- it always helps to eat candy

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I think it has todo with 5 kids and 14 years later not a physical problem or a not doing it right problem
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That sucks get used to it you get even less when you get married

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Fore play, hugging, nuzzling, kissing, flirting, compliments, touching.....thats how you get it. Work a little for it. It makes it 200% better

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Are you married?? My exwife was the same way!! Dated her for 7 years and married for 13.. I used to get teased because I would complain that she wanted it too much.. Sign that paper and slap a ring on that finger and she quit!! I used to tell her that I wanted to get divorced so we could start doing it again!!! She didn't think I was as amusing as I thought I was!!! Lol!!!

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Married been together 14 years and hv 5 kids
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Well there you go!! You need to get divorced!!! Lol!!! I don't know how old she is but women become insatiable sexually from about 37 through their 40's
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