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rawr1217

What do I do about this CRAZY situation?

So I owe my ex $500 because he let me borrow it back in February for a plane ticket to see my boyfriend. I know i know, I shouldn't have but that's not the point right now! So in the beginning I tried paying him back in segments and he refused! Then I told him later I can't pay him back and he told me needed the money now. So I said okay I'll try paying you in segments. I paid $100 for now and he accepted it. My thing is, I have to save til December because my dad is making me pay for my living expenses if I want to move back to California and start living on my own and I work at Victoria' secret so I don't make much. I'm wondering should I ask my boyfriend to give me at least 200 dollars? He doesn't have a job, he has a degree though and his parents are well off and he gets money from them all the time and has 60 grand saved up that's his. But he hasn't offered at all despite knowing I borrowed the money to see him and he gives me limits to how much he can spend when I visit him since we're in a long distance relationship. What do I do?

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Your "boyfriend" should give you all of the money you need to repay your ex. GIVE, not lend. Next time he wants to see you, let him buy you the ticket.

Neither guy is really worth your time. Your ex loaned you the money so that you would feel indebted to him. Your current boyfriend is not interested in being committed to you. Dump them both and get on with your life in California.

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get a job, support yourself. you are only setting your self up to be controlled.

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ananda is right. by taking their money ur giving them some control over u, and u dont want that. get a better job and pay ur ex back. oh and an important thing: don't borrow more money!

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The best thing to do is to stop borrowing money rom other people that you dont have the money to pay back. Also you might look into getting a second part time job. Dont put so much on your boyfriend, because no offence you were the one who borrowed the money not him.

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Time to get a job

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I have one.
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Ask him for money...
It was him who you were going I see so ask him for some!

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