I don't mean to be mean, but if your husband loved you and you loved him then what made you want to cheat on him? And yes you should have him to sit down with you and tell him how you cheating on him and if you still love him try and work it out, but if he becomes upset then in which he most likely will just, then you and his relationship might just be done... Sorry but he does have the right to know that you cheated on him...
you should tell him what you did was wrong and more than likely he will leave you but still you shouldn't keep it away from him either. cuz if he finds out from someone else it will look like you were lying to him and then that is a definite goodbye. you are in a sticky situation. but it will be better for you and him if you tell him ........sorry but that is the truth
I don't know your husband but if it was me , whether you tell now or later, It would be over ... plain & simple ... You don't start anything like that , with anyone , especially while your married or in a relationship !!! You end the one you're in before you begin something with someone else !!! Just my opinion ... Like it or don't .
Is it over? If yes then don't tell him. Why hurt him? People make mistakes. I could've lived forever not knowing my husband cheated when we first got married but I found out 4 years later and it was never the same and we split bc of it but had I never known, I would never have been hurt and had to go through all that crap bc the affair was over and had been for years. I just couldn't get over it though.
Tell him and deal with it. I feel that cheating is wrong. There is obviously something you felt you were looking for or missing in your relationship or it wouldn't have happened. If it's confronted, yes he will be hurt and may leave, but if you don't tell him and what ever issue is going on in your marriage isnt resolved you will be unhappy and cheat again or leave down the road. Fix it now or be done.
Was it an affair or a one time thing?? I was married to a lady for 13 years but together 20 years.. She had an affair with the best man of our wedding and my best friend for over 25 years.. I knew that something was going on for over a year and she kept telling me I was paranoid .. If she had told me and tryed to work it out we would still be married. I have never cheated on her
Telling him would hurt him cause a break up and you would only be doing it to relieve yourself at his expense. If you are sorry and won't do it again learn from it and make it up to him by being super perfect even though he doesn't know. If you expect to do it again or find a temptation, just tell the poor guy you feel that you need to be single.