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lilgummibear: 8 months ago

Should I tell my boyfriend,or should I keep it a secret and why?Read below please.

Well most of you guys know by now,that I want to be a man.The thing is,since I'm broke and I'm only a teenager,that obviously means I can't be a man right now.So should I tell my boyfriend,that I'm wanting to be different genders?I mean the thing is,I don't want him to end our relationship.Also I don't think he will understand everything.The thing is I'm only attracted to men who act/dress like women,g@y or bi guys,guys with both parts,and occasionally women/sometimes Emo boys.So I don't think he will understand,that the main reason why I love him so much is because,he looks like a g@y Emo.Please help asap :(

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Cutey2: 8 months ago

OMG...thats all i have to say right now!

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JessiPanda: 8 months ago

You only like him for looks. You say he won't understand but you're asking for help? Break up with him. You know he'll never be a g@y.

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mitchellpei: 8 months ago

I really don't know what to say....

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lovelylaura: 8 months ago

I suggest you don't tell him. Every teen wants to be someone else when their young, but who knows? Maybe in a couple years you will have COMPLETELY changed your mind and you might have losted your boyfriend. If you don't think you will ever change your mind, list the pros and cons. If you do decide to tell him, then good luck:)!

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MariahWhitley: 8 months ago | Last edited at 1:41PM on 9/11/2012

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lilnailbitter: 8 months ago

i think you should tell him that you want to be a man but i agree with lovelylaura because you might change your mind when you get older but if your 100% sure than go for it i just hope every thing turns out fine for ya

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revoltac: 8 months ago | Last edited at 1:49PM on 9/11/2012

??? O.o I just wouldn't tell him anything right now, since your broke, and only a teen, and u can't become a man now, so.just.wait....?

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trombonefreak727: 8 months ago

I think it is only right to tell him. Personally it doesn't sound like you're totally sold on being a man.

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w1963bobby: 8 months ago via iPhone | Last edited at 3:13PM on 9/11/2012

It's got to be really hard living a lie, go ahead and free yourself and just be real about the whole ordeal and be done with it flat out just tell the truth.

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flipflop53: 8 months ago via iPhone

Good advice Bobby
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w1963bobby: 8 months ago via iPhone

Thanks :0)

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yepgirle: 8 months ago

I would tell him. Give yourself time to figure out what you want. Don't make ANY decisions before you figure this out. Wait until your positive. Don't drag him along

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Shady_Sal: 8 months ago via Android

You should not tell him but break up with him

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magneta: 8 months ago

help me i dont know how to answer

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JessiPanda: 8 months ago

Then don't answer, smart*ss

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magneta: 8 months ago

WELL excuse ME MAMSELL

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VeggieLuver470: 8 months ago | Last edited at 5:26PM on 9/18/2012

look at everything...pros and cons.....do what you feel in your heart that you should..whatever you chose...goodluck :) if he cares...he will support and love you no matter whar

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