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Why doesn't she believe that I'm not cheating?

my gf thinks I'm cheating on her when I tell her daily that I'm not and she still doesn't believe me no matter what I say, how come? does that mean something bad on her end? or why does she continue to believe herself over me

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You have to let her get to know you a little bit better. She may feel insecure around you or even she might be the one who is cheating on you. Open your heart to her a little bit and let her feel comfortable with you. Try looking for any clues in the way she is acting around you as well in case she may be cheating on you. She may have been hurt by someone else as well. Give her some time and see what happens. Also look for a connection. If you don't feel one dump her and move on :)

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It's like that with all women

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newworldorder

Insecure, maybe she got hurt before.

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It's because she's cheating on you ... and can't imagine that you aren't doing the same to her. It's her guilt. You should tell her you're tired of her "projecting" her actions on you - and then dump her and move on.

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Yeah!! Totally agree, we said bout the same thing
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This is Foreal? :/
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Sadly yes in most cases. Sorry to break it to you.
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Usually when someone blames you for cheating it means they are. Not all women think their bf/husband cheats-------tell her without trust there's nothing. so why is she staying with you? my first hunch of her cheating is usually why you get blamed for cheating. its true, ask the question on google. I'm sure you'll get the same answer there

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Seems like she has some trust issues. Prove it to her, show her your texts and facebook or whatever she wants. If your not cheating then you have absolutely nothing to worry about. When you prove her wrong,(assuming she's wrong) try going to therapy or something to fix her trust issues.

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... problem with that is ... you can't prove a negative.

The only way to prove he isn't cheating, is if she is with him 100% of the time monitoring everything he says/does.
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hmm, you make a valid point. Maybe he should just talk to her and see what will satisfy her?
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Maybe you did something that got her the wrong idea.

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Are you cheating?

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No I'm really not
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Have you cheated before?? Most of time us as women get a great feeling that comes over us that sets off an alarm in our mind. And 75% of the time the feeling is true.. Are u acting differently towards her ? Has it been been a huge gap between having sex with her? (if you are sexually active).. It could be many things that makes her feel that way. Because I'm sure she don't just wake up in the morning and say I think he cheating on me.. Get what I'm saying... But good luck

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it doesnt always mean someone is doing wrong just because theyre having a hard time believing their significant other. im sure theres way more to the story that we dont know.

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"Why can't ya trust me Baby?
I must've caught something from a toilet seat,
You know that I would never cheat,
Why can't ya trust me Baby?" - Steel Panther

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dustee

"Your Actions" they speak louder than your words.

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Maybe u haven't proved your liking for her. Do something sweet for her

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It could be a GUILTY CONSCIENCE of her maybe cheating on you or you might of done something to offend her into tricking herself thinking you are cheating on her, either way you two need to sit down and have a talk of why she thinks you are cheating on her...

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