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I'm in love my best friend, she's confused about her feelings, what should i do?

My best friend and I have been friends since the start of high school five years ago. we had a relationship, but i cheated on her. four years later, i find myself in love with her, but she says she has a love for me, but is confused about her feelings and which kind of love she has for me and another guy she is talking to. Nothing i say clears anything up. I live two states away and periodically visit her. her friend lives just a 10 minute walk away from her. Now what? i dont want to give up...

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Hey this is exactly the situation I'm in! Only, I'm the confused girl and there's like 3 guys trying to convince me to like them and dump my boyfriend and I don't even know what I want anymore cuz they are all confusing me and making me feel guilty. Idk though, I guess you should just wait cuz rushing might lead her into doing something she actually doesn't want.

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Don't do anything. Let her work out her feelings. It might take a while. But if you live 2 states away, you might need to give up.

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Dude if you cheated on her she will never trust you again. We are talking about a woman. Forget about it!

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I think this relationship is going down the drain. You cheated on her, but she still likes you. She doesn't want you out of her life, but since you live two states away... and there's another guy... you should probably just wait and see what happens. But I don't think you guys will get together...just my thoughts.

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Tell her you are in love with her again and promise to her that you will never cheat on her and keep your promise.

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Been there done that! Don't hook up with your best friend! Trust me!

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