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What should I do? When the only person that you wish to be with don't even want you, and don't give a shit about? And not feeling the same?

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You need to watch your language on here for starters... There is nothing you can do. You pick up and move on. I take it this must be the very first time you have had to deal with this?? Dating people gives one an opportunity to weed out the undesirables. You are, unfortunately, the undesirable one this time. Go out and find someone else. Learn from your mistakes and move on. Life is not over.

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If they don't care about you, why would you waste your time caring about them? I know it's hard, and I know it sucks, but move on. Use your energy for something positive, because sitting at home wondering what you did wrong, isn't going to help you. Get out there, put yourself into something you love.

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Eventually you will realize that you don't want to be with someone who doesn't want you back. You will also realize how pathetic it is to want someone who clearly doesn't share your feelings.

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Agree with the first part of what you said but calling the person pathetic is extremely mean and uncalled for. I guess you never had someone leave you before that you loved. You can't just instantly shut your feelings off.
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That's your opinion. And I didn't call the person pathetic... I called the action pathetic. There IS a difference. But you, being so smart, already know that.
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Wow... coming from SS, who is the queen of mean, that must hurt.
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realise they are not worth it and find someone who is

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Move on and don't look back, why be with someone who does not feel the same way about you? It hurts like hell but pull your self together and meet new people

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You just need to believe that there is someone out there that truly wants to be with you. I know it hard to accept this right now. Loving someone that doesn't love you back can hurt. Decide to move on and do it.

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