they r lying lol. most girls like the guys that completely ignore them, i had a bunch of guys that liked me but i wasnt interested because it was too easy i went for the guys that didnt throw themselves at me && didnt fall for my "everybody wants me" bs. thats how i met my husband ((25 now btw but we met 9 yrs ago)) i ssen him at a party i thought he was cute but he didnt evn look at me evn when i gave him the "look" i tried everything evn as far as showing him my side tattoo he just said "thats nice"&& turned away it drove me crazy, but at the end of the night he askd for my nmbr & called me like a wk later, driving me crazy in the mean time because he did not give me his so i could call him.... we've been together evr since && that was his plan all along.... to ignore me so i would want him... but to keep me he was considerate, fair, loving, taught me things, had rules but was not controlling, respectful, & honest. he evn took me shopping aftr i had a breakdown aftr i had our twins && freaked out bcuz i couldnt my clothes && he evn got a gym membership & wrkd out w/ me everyday until his deployment. basically he puts my need above all others unless im being selfish.
Yeah I have a sister, and she's had plenty nice guys that would pay for her, loving and caring all the time..like little puppies, and she would eventually get bored/tired of them. Now she's with a guy that isn't all over her, sometimes ignores her, but gives her enough love and pays for enough things..and now she is the one that is up on him haha it's funny :)