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lil_cutie99
lil_cutie99: 8 months ago

Today my boyfriend cheated on me, and then later on at lunch he wanted to get back together. What should I do?

He said he really likes me and he only cheated on me was because everyone told him I was going out with his friend when I wasn't.

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sonozo
sonozo: 8 months ago

hell no if he really liked and respected you he wouldn't of cheated on you in the first place

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JuliaPotter
JuliaPotter: 8 months ago via iPhone

a cheater is a cheater no matter what the reason. i wouldnt forgive him he has to learn that he cant just get away with that

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cookieroma
cookieroma: 8 months ago via iPhone

What should you do? That depends on how much you like being his door mat.

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boondox4l
boondox4l: 8 months ago | Last edited at 7:34PM on 9/17/2012

he should of asked u first and its a lie what he said.
Plenty of my friends tried using a similar excuse ps they are all @zz holes to woman.

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Baked123Rules
Baked123Rules: 8 months ago

Dont Go Back With Him.. Find Someone Who Only Likes You

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Nessa_W_15
Nessa_W_15: 8 months ago

Hun.... I would say no because you listened to everyone else and didn't think about asking me.......

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mandanmargylove
mandanmargylove: 8 months ago

Once in a relationship, never go back! Good luck, you deserve better:)

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lil_cutie99: 8 months ago
thank you
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MathewParsons
MathewParsons: 8 months ago

yes because you said it first right?

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RawrItzAshley
RawrItzAshley: 8 months ago via iPhone

Forget Him !

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screexh
screexh: 8 months ago via iPhone

Not get whit him

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HaleyVannoy
HaleyVannoy: 8 months ago via iPhone

Don't get back with him! He's a Lier and a Cheater! Forget him!

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Teru
Teru: 8 months ago

Screw him, he isn't worth it...

I have a friend who has broken up and gotten back with one guy about 4 or 5 different times... But the only reason I don't stop her, is cause when they are together, I can see it in her eyes, she is really happy...

So unless you have that, don't even think about it...

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notmyplanet
notmyplanet: 8 months ago

You will figure out eventually,that everybody who said no here where right.But since you asking you will forgive him,and be hurt again.

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Cooper16
Cooper16: 8 months ago

Cheater cheater pumpkin eater

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ch123456789
ch123456789: 8 months ago

I'd give that man pie a scare I'd tell him I is pregnant

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lil_cutie99: 8 months ago
he wouldn't believe me
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lil_cutie99: 8 months ago
we never gotten that far in the relationship, but if we did that would be a good idea
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Bubblious
Bubblious: 8 months ago via iPhone

He cheats on you today, then later, at lunch together, he tells you he didn't mean it? He sounds like a busy guy, why even ask this question, he messed up, game over.

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lil_cutie99: 8 months ago
I'm only asking this question is because I really like him, and when were together I'm happy until he does stuff like this
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Bubblious: 8 months ago via iPhone
Cutie, I can't help you because I don't understand why you would want to be with any guy who thought so little of you. So many guys, and you want to be with one who wants to spend his time with someone else. I get the part that you like him, but why put yourself through this? It won't be the last time because if you take him back you give him permission to do it again. He really doesn't care about you. No excuses. Find a good guy.
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jojo2430
jojo2430: 8 months ago via iPhone

So you used to have a boyfriend who believed other people instead of coming to you to ask you about something that was bothering him? I'd say he did you a favor. Its nicer to have a relationship where you trust each other enough to actually communicate these thing to each other. Better luck in choosing your next boyfriend.

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Biggins97
Biggins97: 8 months ago via iPhone

Assuming the 99 in ur name refers to a year of birth I'd say stop dating all together

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lil_cutie99: 8 months ago
wow thanks.. but no your wrong
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medic614
medic614: 8 months ago

He cheated on you, but it's not HIS fault. It's either YOUR fault or EVERONE else's fault?
A) If everyone else says you cheated first, why didn't he come talk to you?
B) The next time he feels the need to cheat, is he going to come up with a better excuse?
C) So lets say he was just trying to get even with you, he just used another female. Do you really want a guy who doesn't think that much of women?
You were lucky enough to find out just how much of a loser this guy is before it was too late. Make sure your next boyfriend is an improvement. That's why you should date several different guys when you are young, to determine the good from the bad. Time to move on.

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lil_cutie99: 8 months ago
he cheated on me first because he listened to what everyone told him and him kissing another girl was his way of getting back at me.. He listens to everyone else but the person there telling a lie about.. If that makes sense.
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bluesun
bluesun: 8 months ago via iPhone

Wait and see what happens at dinner.

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lil_cutie99: 8 months ago
what do you mean wait and see what happens at dinner
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bluesun: 8 months ago via iPhone
It just means it's obvious. Please don't take him back, never take back a guy who cheats on you, ever. And make a habit of it. You will be much happier in your life.
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lil_cutie99: 8 months ago
I broke up with him all of you guys are right thanks for your advice
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bluesun: 8 months ago via iPhone
You betcha' . Seriously keep this rule, it's called self respect. Your on your way to bigger and better adventures in your life.
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lil_cutie99: 8 months ago
Yea but today he tried to kiss me and then tried to get back with me and i said no but he kept trying I don't know what to do.. I don't like him in that way anymore
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bluesun: 8 months ago
you cannot force yourself to be attracted to someone, thats just how love is, and thats what makes it so interesting.
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SupermanFan101
SupermanFan101: 8 months ago

If he feels you're not good enough for him, and wants someone else, then let him go.

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LorettaPalo
LorettaPalo: 8 months ago via iPhone

Dump him u can do better don't settle for sloppy seconds. We teach people how to treat us!!

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catherst
catherst: 8 months ago via iPhone

Only one answer for a cheater. Good bye!!!!!

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mgjoes
mgjoes: 8 months ago

tell him how do you love me or her.

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reneebond
reneebond: 8 months ago via Android | Last edited at 1:19PM on 9/18/2012

You should take him back so,he knows its ok 2 cheat again,leave him really,if you take him back,he will do it again....

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mlm2231
mlm2231: 8 months ago

Dont give him a second chance NOBODY deserves a second chance unless if its your husband/wife

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justmarried2012
justmarried2012: 7 months ago

once a cheater always a cheater you should defiantly not give him a second chance.

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kayleeb
kayleeb: 7 months ago

been there done that. there are all kinds of excuses they make if you can be strong enough to just stay split up do it. ive been in a cheating relationship for 3 yrs and feel like i cant get out of it.

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