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So I ask this girl out she says no,again I ask her no again! So I called her she says no again but like in a sorry voice..what to do?

also she says sorry and all that?

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dustee

Move on to a woman who likes you and will say yes, to a date.

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Look, if she said no she said no, get over it. Don't waste your time on her, find someone else who loves you, you can't MAKE her say yes

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wel ask her y she doesnt wanna go out wit u ....der must b a valid reason

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she doesn't want to be mean or hurt your feelings ...but she wants you to stop asking

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She might sound sorry... or maybe she's just sorry that you don't take the hint. Stop calling her, or she may report you for harassing/stalking her.

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Good answer. Gold star and a smiley.
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Old fashioned green thumb.
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I know... I was just getting used to the new thumbs, and now they go and do this. Thanks, nb!
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No means no. Sorry is just her putting it mildly, but she might not be trying to be mean, she may have other prospects, or just not ready for a date right now. Sorry:(

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You let her go, dude

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She is sorry that she is hurting your feelings because you clearly like her or else she just doesn't want to make you more emotionally unstable. You have asked her 3 times and she keeps saying no. You need to stop asking now and accept that she doesn't like you in that way. It isn't fair of you to keep putting her on the spot like that and making her turn you down over and over again. It is clearly bothering her or else she wouldn't be saying sorry and sounding sad.

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hey dear,the reason y she says no and sorry in a soft voice is because she can see how desperate you are,and be glad she didnt say yes if she really didnt mean it cause you'll be more hurt,Theres plenty fish in the sea,you will get yourself someone that does love you.When a woman says NO they mean NO respect that.

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if you keep asking her out and then she finally says yes, she will have said yes because she felt bad, not because she wanted to go out with you, so sorry, but you probably should move on.

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She sounds sorry because she thinks you're desperate (which you kind of are now). It's a waste of time asking someone out that already rejected you. Move on, you'll never be able to go out with her now.

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Take a hint. Three strikes and you're out, kid. Move along, there's nothing to see here.

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It IS kind of like watching a car accident, isn't it? You don't want to look, but can't bear to turn away....
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Good analogy. You know that phenomenon where traffic on the highway gets backed up as everyone slows down to watch the scene of an accident? There's a term for that in the Boston vernacular: a gawka-blocka.
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We call it gapers delay.
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Lol. Bunch of bobble-heads trying to cause another one...
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She said no in a sorry tone because she actually feels sorry for you. Not because she turned you down. It's because you keep asking. Is this the only girl available in the town you live in? Go stalk another one. Maybe the new one will actually say yes unless the word has gotten out how desperate and creepy you are.

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When a girl says no take it as a no. Stop asking! That gets really annoying, and will probably ruin your chances with a lot of other girls too

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Here's an old school green thumb. Have fun in school.
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Thank ya! :)
And I start the school today. Gonna be hard trying to keep off of Ask.. Haha :)
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this is kinda stalkerish

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How many times does a person usually have to say no to you before you really hear them? I'm sorry but you need to hear her.

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she said no. so stop asking and move on your boarding on harassment there. so no means no now move on

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You keep asking you'll see she's gonna hate you. Take it easy and be yourself. Maybe later on she will change her mind. But not if you keep asking. It's like asking your mom for something and she keeps saying no. Well sometimes she caves but this girl isn't your mom. Sorry

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You need to learn the meaning of the word no. She's trying to be nice. She sounds "sorry" cause she feels bad you can't take the hint. Stop now or she will not like you in any way at all

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the sorry voice was an i feel really bad for you right now. move on and find someone who likes you back. not everyone you like will like you back. simple fact on life

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if you really like her, you will wait for her. don't pressure her girls hate guys who do this!

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She doesnt like you*;) Find someone eals..=p

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Keep asking her girls sometimes don't know what they want you as a man know what's best for her

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usually when a female says NO to that question, they do NOT mean yes, maybe, i'll think about it or try again tomorrow. THEY MEAN NO. She's not into you so id say move on.

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