Wow, are you sure you really want to go down that road? You might succeed in chasing off your dad's new girlfriend, and alienate yourself from your dad at the same time. There's a saying, "Be careful what you wish for because you just might get it." Sometimes, you get other stuff that you don't want.
wow.um I'm not usally a big fan of this but I'll give it a try.Say bad things about your dad or bad things about the girlfriend.Or,just tell your dad you don't love her or like her.Let's see what happens.Tell me later.Don't go too far!Remember,no fan of this!!!
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Last edited at 9:24AM on 9/3/2011
To be honest there is not much you can do about this relationship your dad is in is because he will probably not leave. Why don't you have a father son evening out once a week or a couple times a month, don't discuss his new girlfriend or her nature...simply take him out and do something that might interest the both of you. This will get his mind and yours off of her. Don't let misery have company during this time or in other words..just focus on having fun..this will in time teach each of you that there are enjoyments in life to be had and over time he will become strong enough to straighten her out or leave her when he sees that he can still have fun in life without her at his side.
At the end of the day its your dads decision, however you can always influence someones decision purely by the power of suggestion. Point out the bad and ignore the good, make it clear your not happy with the situation, make it awkward for her to have a conversation with you, keep bringing up things she has done that upset him... be careful though, anytime you try changing someone's decision it can always turn against you and you could end up worse off, besides that think about what your actually doing, are you seriously willing to ruin a relationship for your own benefit? your dad could quite easily hold it against you, take a step back.... is she really that bad? look for the good points in her and think of the bad points in who he COULD be with, things could always be far worse... heard the term "Jump out of the frying pan, and into the fire" ? I mean come on he could be dating Anne Robinson