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How do you flirt with a guy to keep him interested

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I don't flirt to keep a guy interested.. He either IS, or ISN'T.. be yourself, don't throw a persona out there that you have to continue playing..

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uh hu
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Nicely said:D
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Thanks goldstream :0) hey kel!
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I've always found that if you are TRYING to be flirty or just being flirty, it is just gonna be a temporary fleeting thing. Very unfulfilling in the long run. Just be yourself from the get go and let the chips land where they may. And don't let love be a competition. Let love happen. Don't rush it either. Enjoy the falling in love part. When you are 75 years old you will still remember that part.
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talk and drink

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Well act like there isn't a care in the world act HOTTTTT!

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Does your picture mean that you hate mlp?
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You don't need to- Just be yourself and if he likes the real you... Well, he'll stay interested!

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Your right but we ALL know we are NEVER ourselves around guys UNLESS were married.
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Yeah, I guess so.
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Say saucy things that are like allllllmost sexuall but not quite enough to tell.

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What the heck - lol.
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Saucy? Nice.
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Yes. Saucy. Lol
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xD
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Act or be interested in him and what he says and his interests. Everyone likes talking about themselves and if your interested in him make him think he's teaching you something about what he likes.

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I may have to say this
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There's lots of different types of flirting. There's the "giggly-oh-look-how-cute-I-am" kind, the subtle body movements/touching kind, biting your lip kind.... however biting your lip without looking constipated is kinda hard...

I usually go for the 'giggly' one, though that's mostly because I'm a hyper/bouncy person by default. If you're not the cute girly bouncy kind then it would be sort of awkward for you to just start. Leaning in when you're talking is always good, if you're at school or work then wait until you go to the cafeteria/lunch, and try leaning against them (subtly). Brushing your arm against there's is another good way to go. Lower your voice when you lean in and stare directly into his eyes, making it seem like he's the only interesting thing in the room, and act like you're sharing secrets (though don't make it obvious)

There's other things, but I can't fit them all in.

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tell him his cute or he looks cute today that always make me feel more confident around girls

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be sexy....girls dont realize that if you act a lil trashy you can get ANY guy you want....

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My friend has the same probable just be your self and stay happy and laugh a little enjoy the special conversion between you and him I may have to ask this same question and have fun and talk to him and smile

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You are pretty (:
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Thanks again
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Come up to him and say: "Is that a roll of silver dollars in your pocket or are you happy to see me?" If you really want to make his day, substitute "Louisville Slugger" for "silver dollars". If either of your responses to this suggestion is "Huh?" then you may not be meant for each other. Cleavage helps a lot. So does thigh. I usually get those types of signs flashed at me, but mostly the signs I get is the gal calls a priest who starts sprinkling holy water on me and shouts: "The power of Christ compels you to exit this body now!" (I'm not sure if this is caused by my comb-over or my breath.)

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Or your crazy advice? lol
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To Jpink2: I think people have been dropping subtle hints for me to "sell" my '75 Chevy Vega and wear something other than Leisure suits. Maybe I'll give that a try. I don't understand it though because I used to be "The Man" when I hung out at Studio 45 in Manhattan...Kansas.
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Ahahahahaha lmao this is the hardest I've ever laughed at something on ask.com
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Im still laughing
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Be yourself

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Just be yourself and you should find it a whole lot easier than trying to be someone else. Besides if the guy really likes you he should like the real you.

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