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if you had a really bad f'ed up life would you just kill yourself to make it all over with so you dont have to go through the pain of living

anymore? ive put a gun to my head so many times for so many reasons but never pulled the trigger. i wish i would of already.

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Dude don't kill yourself if you kill your self the bible says you go to hell and thats gonna make it much worse just when things aren't going good pray to god or sign up to a mma gym and take all the anger and stuff on the punching bags or something

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I like your advice bfb123 and I myself planned on doing so ending, but began to pray alot even if I thought it might of just bounced off of the ceiling while I was praying to him, but I no longer think on doing that anymore, I used to have a scar on my right wrist because of this nonsense, but thank god it has disappeared a little and can't hardly see it to remind myself of how much of a fool I was to try and hurt myself.
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It's ok now you believe and that's good god loves you so much even if your down god will help you like he's helped me in my life :)
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Thank you very much.
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Dude, sounds like you need more help than is available here. Please talk with a good friend that has a positive outlook on life. If nothing else then please keep up this string and we'll try to talk it out. I just might know where you're coming from. Unload the gun and put it away.

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dont have any good freinds if i told them i wanted to kill myself they would say lets go out and party one last time before you do.....
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not really any good freinds and they all hate life to the only thing thats stopping them is there girlfreinds...
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Life gets tough sometimes. Sometimes it seems like it will never change but it can. By your pic you seem young so you have a lot of time for change to happen to you. Your friends now don't seem interested in helping out. If they are gang-bangers then they seem to have written life off too.
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im 13 and not really its been this way since i was 6 and yeah they are..
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Please go to your school counselor tomorrow morning and be open with them. They CAN help you out. If you can talk to your parents then do that also. Keep the lines of communication open.
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we dont have a counceler.....and i hate my parents...
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Do you have a trusted adult that you can talk to like a teacher or boy scoutmaster?
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no i hate my teachers and my teachers hate me and F No! never been in any boy scouts or gay $h!t like that......
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Your f'ked up life can change for the better at any time. Giving up is the only f'ck up you cannot make better. Address your problems, find someone to talk to, just don't give up!

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but i dont wanna go on..
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I don't know what's going on in your life but the first 26 years of my life were seriously screwed up. Life was hell, I persevered, found some good folks, left the bad crap and life is very good now.
If it helps, consider the number of children that don't survive their childhood, even though they didn't want to die. Nothing is as bad as that.
You can fix anything but death
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idk...:(
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You should not even be thinking of something like that, I once before planned on killing myself due to family matters and the way people at my school used to be mean and talk crap about me because I was shy and would hardly stand up for myself, but am in high school now and not so shy and will snap back at people or just let it go cause it takes a bigger person to walk away then the one who will stay and try to fight, but you need someone to talk to about your problem and do not think about pulling that trigger no matter what is going on in your life do not pull that trigger, even though it does not seem like it "life everyday just you living is like a gift from god" alright.....

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i dont beleive in god if he was real he would have helped me by now
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Dude you don't believe that's why he hasn't helped you you have to accept him and once you do you'll see life will get better
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Well it may not seem like he will help you out right now it may take time and your life might get better, everyone does not have a perfect life some do and some struggle with a few or lot of them deciding on wanting to end their life like you said you were thinking of doing or turning to DRUGS to numb the pain which I think will just make things worse because it will cause them to want more and more of it then follows behind it addiction, but sorry if I make you mad I do not mean to and hope your life starts to get better.
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Regardless of God or any religion, you know there is ALWAYS a way to handle any of your problems. Take it one step at a time even if its just little steps. Many people have been through so much ----ed up stuff (Except Justin Bieber) but there is always a way.

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Pain or No pain, you only got one chance to experience it.
And BTW, pain is one of the feeling, whether you like it or not. Just because you've experienced pain in part of your life doesn't mean that you should end your life. If you're not mature enough to adjust and live with the pain, just ignore it. Like, just because you hate some dishes doesn't mean that you never have to have food again. You will just ignore the one you dislike, and will have the one that you like the most, don't you?

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Please don't do that. I know how you feel but you really shouldn't. I mean, people always say it'll get better and, yeah, it might but I'm not going to say that. I'm only going to say you'll never know if you die. And think of the people you'll be leaving. They'd be sad. And I don't know you but I'd be incredibly sad too. And also think of all the stuff you've wanted to do and still want to do. You can't do them if you're dead.
Please don't give up. I really don't want you to regret this if there is an afterlife. Please keep trying.
And show how strong you are by not giving up. Only an incredibly strong person can go through what you are and not kill himself.
Please don't do this. If I ever see you on the news I hope it's 'cause you did something amazing and not because you decided to give up.
And know that there are always people who completely understand how you feel because they go through what you do. You're not alone. You may feel like it but you
never are.

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