I think its a good idea i mean your waiting for the right person and thats great im 16 and im a virgin i want to lose mine to the girl i love making love so yeas it is a good idea dont listen to other people cuz look at the bright side your saving your self unlike all the people that make fun of you for it
It is awesome! Those people that laugh at you are immature. One day they will look back and realize how stupid they were to lose theirs so early. I bet half of them were used for their virginity and then dumped on their a$$. Wish more of today's kids were like you.
That's a great thing. Don't feel weird about it at all. I was a late bloomer myself. I was actually famous on the radio because of it... It allowed some people to be more comfortable about it. In this day and age of very bad STD's, this is a much smarter lifestyle until you are good and ready with a good guy. (or girl...I want to be fair to all that ask for my advice. Shout out to my lesbian sisters)
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Last edited at 8:01AM on 9/26/2012
Don't feel so bad about it, I am 19 and I am still a virgin and would rather be that then have STD from somebody for losing it in a stupid way of not using protection and having kids which I look forward to having some myself one of these days and anyways if I were to choose to lose it at some time in my life I would rather have it with someone who does not see me as just to take advantage of I would want someone who wants me for who I am and not by what I look like some people think beauty is all that counts in life which is sad for them to think that but I mean don't be depressed over this and don't listen to those who try and put you down they are probably just jealous because they lost theirs in some bad way. Oh and plus it would be better if you had a ring on your finger first by the man you will be spending your life with and even maybe the one to start a family with down the road of life hope this is helpful and hope you have a GREAT DAY.
I wish I waited longer than I did, There is nothing wrong with waiting. Life is too short to live ashamed of something and you dont want to go and have sex just because SOME ppl think that it is wired just tell those ppl to get lost. you just wait until you are ready!!!!
its definetly ok, it means you have respect for youself!!! and now that you've gone that long its gonna be alot easier for you to find a guy thats gonna respect you for that and thats gonna wait till your ready, soo dont be ashamed it just means you respect yourself to still be a virgin!!!
I think your one of the smart girls who has a bright future ahead . Save sex for the right person not every tom ,Dick,and Harry. You will thank yourself later for it. Anyways first time sex is nothing to enjoy no matter how drunk you are;-)
no its definitely okay, in fact thats the better way to roll! The guy you marry would appreciate that plus even if you do lose your virginity, people would still be rude and make fun of you for losing it! You nor anyone can ever win. You should be proud of yourself for still having it. :D
I'm not religious and I don't know if you are. But I think that someone people rather wait and see if the right one comes along. I know for a personal experience that virgins tend to feel more attached to the person that they lost their virginity with and some guys don't like that responsability. Some other guys don't really care either way, and some guys will respect more a girl for waiting for the right person instead of sleeping around. The last type of guys is the kind of guys that you must look for, don't let any one pressure you into anything you don't want to do or you are not ready to do. When you meet the right guy you will know, and in the end you will feel great for waiting. I have done things in my past that I am not proud, one of them was to have someone loose their virginity to me, and I just brush it off like it was nothing. I didn't call her back and I avoided her until she finally got the message that it was a one night stand for me and nothing more. Now, that I am older, I feel horrible for what I did to her, but I think we both were responsible, none the less I learned to respect girls.
Freshness is natural. Like a stream flowing form the mountains, fresh vegetables & fruits from the garden they look so nice and beautiful. Virginity to whatever age you can maintain makes you look fresh and beautiful. In all cultured societies marriage is the license parents and religious leaders give or approve your relationship with a man of your choice or their (parents) choice when you are allowed to loose yr virginity.
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Last edited at 6:33AM on 10/2/2012
As a young woman the pressure to lose your virginity can be enormous. Wait for the love of the right guy. Sharing that with someone you truly care for will be the best experience of your life! I waited and I will never regret it!
Sure it is, honey. I didn't lose mine until I was 32. Granted, every guy I ever liked dumped me when I wouldn't make love, but in essence, Iw as lucky because NONE of them ever tried to hurt me. So it is OK to be a VIRGIN. Don't EVER be emabarrssed to aska question, you hear? Love Ya, Phyllis...
Good for you! I had sex at 17 only because I was too insecure to say no. Be true to your self and screw (no pun intended) the others that make you feel badly. Do it only when you are really ready and with someone that you really trust. Congrats for being strong enough to take your time.
Of course it's ok! And anyone who doesn't respect your decision, isn't worth your time, so just keep on walking by! When it's your time to lose your virginity you will know it in your heart. Everything will feel right,and you will be comfortable with yourself and partner. It's not a race! Don't ever let anyone talk you into it or pressure you. It has to be your decision & only because YOU want it and are ready. WAY TO GO!!
Way to Go Girl! no there is nothing wrong with being a 20 year virgin. seems to me that you didn't give in to social pressures and you can think for your self. Good for you. When the time is right for you it will happen.
You Know It! You are amazing, like my new hero. You haven't had sex yet. Big Deal.......That means you aren't ready, don't ever pay attention to what other people think, just think in your gut. Is it right? When it's time you'll know, God will tell.
I am the same way.. I get laughed at too.. Everyone thinks that if you don't have sex, you're a loser but in reality, waiting shows that you have respect for yourself and your future husband.. Maybe possibly pass this choice onto your future kids if you have any(: It'll make them proud and you'll live your life without any guilt. Others are living with guilt, which is one of the reasons why they laugh and make fun of people who are Virgins still.
It's perfectly fine. :) You should save yourself for someone special, sex isn't just something. It's a special something, meant to be between two special people. Not just anybody. It's good to save yourself in my opinion. :)
What an awesome thing. With all of the peer pressure out there is says a lot for your character to be a virgin. And I know from past experience that most girls give in just to fit in not because they really want to and afterwards regret it and become insecure and jealous. You have to be emotionally ready for that kind of commitment as well as whomever you are with. A lot goes along with the act. Stay with what you are comfortable with!!