What should I do about this long distance relationship?
So as you know, I've been in a long distance relationship with someone in Korea for over 6 months now. We've met once already but he keeps pressuring me to meet him sometime soon again. The problem is I can hardly take vacation until March due to my 2 job demands. He understand this but we've had so many disagreements, seems like every 2 weeks or so we argue about it. Still we work it out like any mature adult and try to find solutions. Then he will bring it up continuously. Just few days ago, he wrote me this long email about the reasons we need to see each other sooner. I know he cares about me a lot although he hasn't said those 3 words yet. he says he misses me a lot and just wants to spend time with me. Sometimes I feel he can be very needy. He waits for me online & sometimes I don't come on & he'll question where I'm at. I worked 2 jobs night shifts so it's hard sometimes. He believes that if we don't see each other sooner, out feelings may change and we can't find a good match like each other. I really care for him but he says he's lost some trust in me because of this reason. I know he means well but feels like I have enough stress to deal with. This is my first LDR so I'm learning. Doing my best for him. He says he will not ask me again until I'm ready but he's asked many times before and then gets mad at me. I've been sending him money for his ticket which is about $1400 every month I do this. I trust him enough that he won't spend it because it's really what we both want. I know it's foolish to do but I trust my own instincts. He has a Loy of financial obligations, just bought a new home, bills, etc and he's showed me proof of that. But it gets on my nerves when he pushes me like this. He know this & somedays I become distant. We're both in our 30s. He says if we're still stable in 2 years, he wants to take it to the next level. I'm willing to give him the chance. He's a man that follows by plans and I just go with the flow. What do you guys think I should do? Stay with him or move on? He's very sensitive and I'm afraid he'll be hurt.