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I am pregnant and my Fiance doesn't want to keep it because we already have two children and we are still living home with my mother.

We just cannot afford it right now i am trying to convince him that everything will be ok once I find a decent job so that we can move out of here.

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you could put it up for adoption there is a loving home somewhere for it .... try to take care of it before it is born

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if u want to keep it then keep it! u cant change ur mind after "its" done and if u r really considering on keeping it then i dont think u would ever forgive urself afterwards

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I say keep the baby

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plz dont get an abortion its mostly just another form of murder if u are scared to keep it mabey look into adoption

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How about adoption? I have 2 adopted children (adopted at birth, now 19 and 17)?

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That's awesome!!
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This is your decision not his. Having a baby is a miracle and I don't think abortion is the best. You can always place the baby for adoption and you will know he/she will be with a loving family. I say if you can keep him/her it's a blessing

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I disagree. If it isnt any of his decision then you have no right to ask for support. It is both of the parents decision.
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Not really. The mother carries the baby for 9 months she will deliver the baby. It's her decision. Just necause a man thinks he can't " handle" a extra member to the family doesn't mean she should listen. It's only her decision if she wants to have the baby or not
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Abortion should never be an answer or used as birth control. If you are mature enough to have sex you should reap the consequences. I agree with cookieroma. Adoption is a great idea. Abortion kills an innocent child. And it also creates more problems in the future.

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its call pro CHOICE for a reason....altho given your situation might wanna try using protection & common sense.

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Please do not get a abortion. I know from personal experience that it was the worst decision my ex and I ever made. There isnt a day that goes by I dont think about it. Children are a gift and a blessing. Please keep yours....!

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Keep this baby dump this looser ...

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eaglet in office now... i am safe ... i have a circle of prayers, good wishes and love of my loved ones around me every time....hmmm quite pampered...
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Awww thats good i wish i can be with you now
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you are with me... every time... !!! you, your care, your kind words & your love..
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You know... i was waiting for you...!!
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Ive been waiting for you my
Whole life
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I know everyone has there own opinions and its a very sensitive topic. But....I'am a firm believer that if you do the deed then except the consequences. We all know how babies are made and how to prevent them if they are not desired. I do respect women's right to decide but I also believe that decision can be made before hand. I say keep the baby and enjoy your family. If he loves you he should respect that decision!

Just my .02!

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Please, don't have an abortion! I'm seriously begging you! :(
Adoption is always a good option & your baby will be a blessing, no matter who ends up being his/her parents.
Also, I would seriously examine your relationship before you get married. Your fiance seems fine with throwing things away if they're inconvenient, even in regards to a child. Watch out! He's selfish!
Praying for you, honey. Be strong, okay. Your babies need you. (:

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Too many people that can't have children would love to give your baby a loving home.

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keep the baby please!

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