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goldduckies12
goldduckies12: 7 months ago

What should I do if I like somebody 3yrs younger than me. We love eachother alot and yeah she's 13 I'm 16 is this good or bad?

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B3AST_M0D3
B3AST_M0D3: 7 months ago via iPhone | Last edited at 7:57PM on 10/2/2012

No, that's bad, and nasty. once you turn 18 and you're in a relationship with her, it may cause you a trip to prison.

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gatorblu
gatorblu: 7 months ago

It is not good. That is too big of an age difference in your young lives.

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FishinCountryGirl2: 7 months ago | Last edited at 7:57PM on 10/2/2012

that's hard to answer.

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navbeans
navbeans: 7 months ago

Follow ur heart :D

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RexViatores
RexViatores: 7 months ago

I have a seventeen year old friend whos dating a fourteen year old freshman. Sure its gross. But its also pretty funny.

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sandwich_munchies: 7 months ago via iPhone | Last edited at 8:00PM on 10/2/2012

It will consider a pedophile, at you'll earn a free ticket to prison. and that's just nasty

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shaki3378
shaki3378: 7 months ago

You might think "three years isn't a big difference" but it is. She just became a teenager. And you're like half way to adulthood.

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Robloxdude1
Robloxdude1: 7 months ago

bad

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CanadianCookie
CanadianCookie: 7 months ago

As long as you're not doing anything thats against the law, I don't see it as a bad thing. You're both teenagers.

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gustavo650
gustavo650: 7 months ago

its all bad when u turn 18

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GreysonLuver124
GreysonLuver124: 7 months ago

Age is just a number!!!! Unless you're 13 and the other person is like 40. That's just plain gross XD but no you're fine 3 yrs isn't that big of a difference

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bengaldude545
bengaldude545: 7 months ago via Android

Wait until your about 20, then it will be normal, but for now just be really close friends.

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DimitryLaguerre
DimitryLaguerre: 7 months ago via Android

Stay away

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gslyblue
gslyblue: 7 months ago

Yes, be friends for now and see how you feel when you're both older.

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Marines_3rd_division: 7 months ago via iPhone

That will consider a pedophile once you reach age of 18.

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JollyRogre
JollyRogre: 7 months ago via iPhone

If you're just friends who are sweet on each other, and keep it that way, nothing is wrong. However, 13yo girls are easily flattered by your 'age and experience.' It's up to you to not abuse your leverage. Do NOT make it sexual. If it is true love, be patient. If it isn't, you won't hurt an innocent girl.

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VikiH52
VikiH52: 7 months ago via iPhone

You're both jailbait at this point, but if you keep your relationship above board, and spend a lot of time with her parents so they get to know you , it could be okay. Nothing lasts at your ages anyway.

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JollyRogre: 7 months ago via iPhone
Not necessarily. I personally know of 4 different "high school sweethearts" that are still married 30 years later. Not a lot, but it is possible!
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