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we have never talked but, this is going to sound lame but he accepted my friend request on Facebook. we are the same hight and everything but i want him to get to know me first but idk how to do it. my friend says to text him i think it would be weird because we haven't talked. please i really want to go out with him.

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Can you go outside?

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what?
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No im stuck in a cage
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Uh, you wanna go out with me?

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ummm im good
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they meant that's the way you ask someone else.
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ohhh i feel stupid
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I'm serious, just say to them, Hey, you wanna go out with me? The answer's gonna be yes or no. What's hard to underrstand about that?
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From my experience do not rush into a relationship because it could go very wrong. I would suggest try being friends first and get to know each other that way and see where it leads from there.

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Just ask him if he could go and meet you somewhere.

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Well, honey, do you guys live anywhere near each other? I mean if you do, I'm sure there's somewhere VERY public around where you get a bite to eat. Would you feel funny saying something like, "My friend and I are going to be at the mall on "so and so day." Maybe while she's shopping, we could meet and get a bite to eat. You could get someone to drop you off OR really go shopping. But that way, you wouldn't be held down for a certain amount of time. You could stay or go whenever you feel like it. I don't know. You may feel that's too forward. Just an idea.

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i dont know where he lives
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Oh, well, that DOES present a problem then. Well, we must put our heads together, my dear and see what we can figure out. More...
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I'm sorry. I just now re-read your question and saw that you've never even talked yet. Well, this is going to take some time, honey. Just start talking. Talk, talk, talk, as much as he wants. Then maybe (depending on long-distance plans) he might want to start talking on the phone. But, dang it, the worst thing is IT'S GONNA TAKE SOME TIME since we're just starting out, so FRIEND HIM and then GET STARTED with a vengeance, my darlin'! Don't come on too strong, though. Just be yourself. A man can spot desperation coming 2 miles down the road. (Actually he can sniff it over the internet!!) So go slowly. I meant go ahead and get started with a vengeance, okey-dokey? Like right now. And I'd love it if you'd keep me updated, Miss Show! You'll be in my thoughts.
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ok thx my friends are going to ask if he knows me
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Good deal. That's keeping our heads together. Actually, very cool. Now, remember, I'm on the other end here - always, okay? I'll answer it for you. OKAY!
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Thanks but it didnt work out :/
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Oh, sweetie, I'm sorry to hear that. Are you okay?
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ya i was kinda sad but i think im over it :)
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Well, sweetie, I'm sure it was his loss. Just be patient. You're the catch - just remember that - and you don't want to "settle" for just anybody. You want to be treated like a princess! So just be patient and wait on the man the Good Lord's got picked out to treat you like you deserve to be treated. God Bless You.
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Thank You. You Always Know What To Say. :)
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Oh, thank you, sweetheart. But I only speak the truth. May the Princess wait for her Prince.
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Haha Yeah I Found My Prince. :)
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Get outta here! Tell me, tell me, darlin'!
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well i asked out this guy and things have been gong well lately and he really likes me :)
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Oh, honey, I'm just really happy for you! And of course he likes you! What are you talkin' about, girl? He'd be crazy if he didn't now, wouldn't he? Oh, I hope you guys continue to be happy. You'll have to keep my updated and I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Just always remember, happiness comes from within yourself. Don't rely on just another person to bring you happiness, okay? But if you've got both, WONDERFUL!!!! Xoxo
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thanks. yeah it's been going good :D
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It's good to hear from you and even better to hear the news. Thank you for thinking of me and letting me know how things are going. I'm so happy for you.
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Yeah. it didnt work out. but i feel okay :)
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Hey there. I am SO glad you are staying with me and keeping me informed about your life. I think of you and wonder how things are going;. I'm sorry things didn't work out this time either, but just don't give up. Don't rush into another relationship too soon either, though. Maybe just sit back, relax and wait a little while and let somebody come to YOU. That way you'll know they're really interested in you for you. Does that make sense, my dear? I can remember sometimes being so impatient that I couldn't enjoy what and who was around me for worrying about WHO I wanted to be with in a relationship, and I found out later I missed out on a lot...maybe even a possible really good relationship with someone because I was too busy not enjoying the moment and I seemed boring at the time. So just hang in there, okay? And please still think of me and let me know how you're doing. Thanks so much; I really do care. ^_^
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Aww. Thanks. I love knowing that i can always come to you <3
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I Have A Bigger Problem...... i Started To Cut Myself...... Only 2 And They Arn't Deep But I Want To Do More But My Friends Wont Let Me <------ Thats A Good Thing.
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Oh, honey, you've GOT to get a handle on that ASAP. You now say "only 2 and they aren't deep" but see what you say after that? And I thank the good Lord for your friends. That IS a good thing. I used to cut, did you know that?
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And, yes, you can always come to me. I'm glad you know that.
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yeah its 4 now but i dont do deep. Yeah i love my friends :) Really? what did you use i use a staple .
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Honey, you're talking about this too nonchalantly for me because I care about you. This is something to be worried enough about to where you desperately need to seek counseling for it. This is a problem that truly, if something goes wrong, can kill you. And please don't laugh at that. And to use a stapler? Think of the infection. I mean of course you have to worry about infection with any type of cutting, but, Show? Stop it, please. See some good professional and talk to them. It's been 3 years for me now and I don't want to tell you what I used. I'm really upset at how seriously you're NOT taking this, honey. Please don't be mad at me, but I can't help it. Wouldn't feel that way if I didn't care. Maybe you just think it's a phase and no big woo. But it can turn into a habit, a dangerous one where you can hit the wrong place and bleed more than you ever expected, or get a bad infection and maybe even gangreen set up, or numerous other possibilities. Honey, you have to find another way to cope. You haven't found the right relationship for you yet, because the right person hasn't come around yet. You need to accept that fact and actually be happy you're not tied down to the wrong person like I was - somebody that mistreats you, slaps you, hits you with his fists, hits you in the ears, holds your head underwater, punches you in the eyes and mouth, kicks you, curses you and demeans you. All of these are possibilities with the wrong person. I'd rather be by myself and make myself happy than to be WITH someone and be lonely any day, any time. And when the time's right, that person that is meant just for you is going to come right up to you and both of you are going to find out just what true love is. But, in the meantime, don't go messing yourself all up. I can tell you from experience that not a lot of people want someone they have to help "fix" before their relationship can really get going. Please stop this and be yourself. That's who you want the person you're looking for to love, right? You being you?
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yeah im done doing that.and know they arent deep and no i dont need counseling so everythings okay now :) did you have a merry christmas.oh yeah pleassseeee
dont tell anyone or show anyone

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Hi, sweetie. Well, I hope you're not just telling me that to appease me and, just who am I going to tell or show (if I was the type) which I'm not? Silly goose. And yes, I did have a Merry Christmas. I hope you did also. But don't you tell me stuff just because it may be something I'd RATHER hear. You can always be truthful with me. I'm just here to help, okay? Xoxo
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well look at my new question. i need help!!!!! my mom and dad are gunna be really mad so i wanna find a way so we dont have to take it someplace
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Are you talking about the iPod? That's the last question I see, honey.
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Sorry I haven't been on my computer broke. But I have a IPod. But I feel for the guy who this is all about and he lead me on and totally dropped me and I got hurt really badly. I always fall for the people it'll never last or even work
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Hey, honey. I'm so sorry you got hurt again. I always fell for the wrong person it seemed, until I was 43...43! I think I just wanted to be with someone so badly that I looked too hard and then just settled for someone when they came along because I was afraid I'd never find the right person and I'd always be lonely. But then I found out that it was better to be alone and happy, than to be WITH someone (but there's turmoil, etc. always going on) and be lonely. I don't know. Do you think maybe you could be the same way? Instead of just sitting back and letting love come to YOU, you're always running out to find it? I don't know. I finally learned what my problem was and when I decided that God was just going to have to drop somebody in my lap, that someone was going to have to come after me the next time, I was much happier. And that's when I met my husband. (And he's nothing like the other men I had ever dated in my life.) LOL Maybe it's time you just sit back and let someone come after you. You think?
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Yeah thanks a lot. I really needed that (:
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I'm only watching after you!!!
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Go up to him/her and do it

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say hi introduce yourself and tell him that you would like to get to know him if he asks why say you think he looks cool or something

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I would jus start a convo with him on facebook. Just send a message hey how are u and take it from there!!!

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ya but dont you think that would be wierd because he have never talked? what if got a message from someone you have never talked to? what would you do?
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Well everyone adds ppl and says hey on Facebook and its not weird . If he don't reply then he may not be interested.. But i would try it
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write him a message and say thanks for add cutie

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