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LonleyFairSkinnedGir

Why do people care so much if you're gay or not?

As in why not let people be who they are? And let god deal with them when the time is right. I don't think it's anyone's place to say who someone should love or not. If people don't like it why not pray for that person instead of yelling at them...all I'm saying is why not let god deal with it?

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I really don't

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Good reflection!

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Some of that has to do with religion some of it is because people are racist against gays because it isn't what they believe and it makes them uncomfortable and some of it is just cause people are dumb. If you're gay don't be ashamed of it. Be who you are because only you can make yourself happy. I personally think it shouldn't matter as long as two people care about and love each other.

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i agree with everything you said, but for future reference: you cannot be racist against gays, for we are not a "race". We are a group, so prejudice would be the proper term.
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Well thanks and I didn't even realize I said it like that lol..but true!
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It's mostly because of religion. People see it as a sin and its considered wrong. I did a study on this once and stumbled upon the verse in the bible explaining this. It says in the bible 'do not love a Man as if you we're to low a woman' speeding in terms of men in general and vice-versa. The bible translated it wrong. It really says 'do not love a man and a woman' meaning being bisexual is wrong. Another reason people judge is because they are insecure. I don't have any problems with a gay person. Let them know you aren't interested an you won't have any problems. People judge because it has been frowned upon for so long due to religion and politics, and because of their own insecurities.

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I know but I really don't care if people are gay.
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now look it all depends if your religous or not which i am but i dont hate someone for sleeping with the same gender i say what ever floats your boat man do whatever you whant its a free country the end justify the means my friend people do what they whant when they whant even if it abides the law of god and goverment

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Just because someone is a homosexual does not mean that we cannot love him (or her) or pray for him (her). Homosexuality is a sin and like any other sin it needs to be dealt with in the only way possible. It needs to be laid at the cross and forsaken. Homosexuality is not a special practice that is exempt from God's righteous judgment simply because they claim they are born that way, or just want to be free to love, or say that it is normal. People are born with a tendency to lie. Does that make it okay? People want to love each other, but since when is "love" the determiner of what is right and wrong? We Christians should pray for the salvation of the homosexual the same as we would for any other person trapped in any other sin. This is not an issue of arrogance or judgmentalism. We don't want anyone to be lost due to their sin and that includes gays, lesbians, and transgenders. This does not mean that you are to approve of what they do.

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Because its gross

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I find most people would rather not know about your personal sexual life. I don't go around telling people what I prefer to do sexually, and I certainly don't define myself by them.
I simply cannot understand why homosexuals feel, not only a need to tell everyone about their sexual desires, but to carry it around like the definition of their entire personality.
It's called a 'personal life' for a reason

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We are against the homosexual lifestyle because God says sex between people of the same gender is wrong. Unfortunately too many take it a step too far and turn it into hatred toward gay people as well, rather than loving them as we are commanded to love everyone.

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Because people are ignorant and think there views are more important

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People are afraid of things that they don't understand. It's human nature. People will always be prejudiced, and all we can do for the religious zealots is pity them.

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