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Question for women. My anniversary is coming up and I want to buy my wife a adult gift. Any suggestions?

My wife has never really used toys before and has mentioned wanting to try new things and "spice things up". I was thinking about a vibrator so it could be used together or her alone. But is that a wierd gift ? I went to the store and there were so many different kinds so I'm not even sure what to get. So is a vibrator a good gift or is that not "spicing things up enough"? Any suggestions would be great!

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I would say some b0ndage items would be nice, and maybe a vibrat0r that you could both use.

Don't forget to get her something classy too (jewelry, a hobby item, etc)! A woman wants more than toys for an anniversary present.

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Thank you for your help. Yes I'm getting her more then toys. I booked a room at a bed and breakfast and also got her a pair of earings. the toys were kinda more of a fun gift idea. I looked at the fuzzy handcuffs and they could be fun. My worry is more the vibrator. How do I know what to get there are so many. I thought there would be a couple different sizes and shapes, there are hundreds of styles. Does price make a difference on quality or a secific brand or model?
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Oh for vibrat0rs I would just get something simple and small, not the most expensive, but not the cheapest either. It's really up to you to buy a style that she will like.
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Thanks again! I'm glad you answered because I was thinking about going the other direction and getting her something big. I guess start small and if the gift is a hit then we can go from there. I want the gift to be fun and sexy not cheesy. Is there a way of giving it without making it like a gag gift.
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Present it to her in the bedroom while things are starting to get hot :)
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Ok with out me going into to much detail. Things in the bedroom start getting hot break out the handcuffs and blinfold then a bit later suprise her with the toy? Sexy or cheesy? or scarey?
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Oh that sounds perfect, in my opinion at least ;)
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Glad to hear I have a little romantic ability. After 12 years together and 3 kids it is kinda hard to remeber how to be romantic. Thanks again for all your help!
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Your welcome, hope she likes it!
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Thank you for your help. Our weekend went amazing and she was so suprised. After dinner when we went back to the room i had the handcuffs already attached to the bed and the blind fold. She was very suprised then after a while I the toy. She said i suprised her and loved her gifts!!
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Oh that's great to hear! I'm glad it went well :)
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