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how do i get my boyfriend to hold my hand?

we have been dating for about a month and i really wanna hold his hand! he hasnt made a move yet but i really want him to... but HOW!? even if its just like under the lunch table or something like that!! please help me! THX GUYS!

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you should like tease his hand or something, like push it in a certain way where it won't hurt him nor make it seem like it was an accident. it's kinda hard to explain :p
but he should by now make a move, aha

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just be brave and hold his... im sure he wont mind

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Slowly push your hand towards his he'll get it

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Just hold his hand :) Go for what u want!! :)

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but what if he rejects and i get all embarrassed?! :(
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If he rejects he's not the one for you :)
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i agree with Dyelle :)
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i mean DYELLA!!!
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Just go for it and hold it and c what he does

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learn to ask for what you want, some times you have to train your man to be the man you want

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Hold HIS hand :p

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what is he rejects and i get all choked up and junk!!??
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Then he's not the person you would want to spend your life with
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ok thanks man :)
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Hold his hand hen your walking next to each other. I'm sure he won't reject it!!

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WHAT IF he does though! what do i do?
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If he does then just don't be all sad and stuff because it just means he's nervous which is ok!
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ok thanks!! :)
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I have the same problem ? I'm gonna just try to ask him myself though or text him while you're sitting together ? good luck!

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thank you! :)
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When you are walking next to each other gently knock his hand. He should get the message ;)

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Grab his hand. Haha, I did it with my guy friends all the time. (:

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Tickle his knee so he grabs your hand and then hold it.

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Yeah, just grab his hand. Be playful about it if you want to, but just be cool about it. Alot of guys like it when girls take the lead. I know I did when I was a teenager.

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Just Dont Rush It When He Is ready He Will
believe Me Its Just A Matter Of Time
But If U Feel Like He Is Never Gonna Do It GO FOR IT ;)

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Just start playing with his hand and he will get the hint

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O.o Idk, if I had a gf I would always be trying to hold her hand XD

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just grab it...

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but what is he rejects and i get all embarrassed and stuff? :O
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then just pretend it did not happen...he is just not ready for it... if he does not hold your hand weeks later talk to him about it...if he dont hold your hand after that eather he is not ready for it...that it'll take time... or he is embarressed by you...just talk to him
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Keep looking in his eyes for few minutes...for sure it will..:)
I think you're too nervous..but don't be

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Don't makethe face your making in the picture because it scared the hell out of me...

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do it just grab his hand

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knock his hand while your just sitting there. most of the time guys will grab your hand & just not let go. simple

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I have the same problem how do I get him to hold my hand in class without giving him hints

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