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I need help forgiving my wife for some past mistakes. Caught her sexting w old friend on face book. Been married ten years.

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If you are able to consider this, you are a better person than most, and will do fine!! I don't know how to tell you to get past this, but it sounds like you really love her! Good luck !!

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What's upppppppp? I live for questions like this....
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Charlie!! I miss you !!! Where have you been?
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Working.... Today and tomorrow too. It got pretty busy. Unfortunately most jobs seem to be coming in towards the end of the week right now so I'm of on Monday's and Tuesdays or something like that. I'm self employed but gotta be on site whenever my builders need me.
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Go to the bin Ladin question on my q&a and read my comment to momo !!!!!!
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Will do!!!
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I wouldn't forgive for that...

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If it's the first time, I dont see a reason to not forgive. And if u love her, then u should be willing to work thru things. The make up sex is always good too.

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You are considering forgiving, so find out how much was going on first, and how far, then talk in a none accusing way, don't hurt yourself by wondering.

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often when women cheat its for different reasons then with guys. generally its due to emotional issues. find out why she cheated. did she feel unattractive, unloved, unwanted, unsexy, what? dont ask if you dont really want to know and are willing to fix things. once you know the problem, you can work on it. dont just say "you feel unsexy? i think ur sexy, here ill fix things." then ignore her. that wont work and things will only get worse.

thing is, without this issue being resolved.... odds are against you.

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I'm so sorry but if you want complete honesty, then I'd say it's over. This is just the beginning symptoms. Did you ask her if she wants out? If she's looking elsewhere.... Well, NOT good.

The Best of Luck to you! Really.

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Dump her who knows what else she is doing when your not around. If she wants to show her goods to the other dude so bad. Tell her he can have you. Sorry but that's just wrong.

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Exactly!!!!! That's just what she got busted doing.
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Tough call bud. I was with my first one 10 years before I busted her.... And it wasn't sexting.... Just plain old sex. Got kids? If yes then you owe it to them to try anyway. If not then send her packing. There's no excuse, and plenty of good ones out there that don't play that crap. Ask yourself.... What we she have done if she busted you sexting with an ex????? Were they just talking dirty or sending pics? Makes a difference in my book. But either way I would look for a way out. Sorry, divorce REALLY sux. Good luck.

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So true. Divorce completely sucks but honestly, don't think it'll get any better from this point...just going downhill from here.
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Yeh I'd give it about a 95% chance for disaster .
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