Most would listen to songs to get over it, some would talk it up with close friends, some would just try to see the whole world in a whole new perspective. Then again, it all falls upon who you are :) Don't worry...I've been through that pain...
Be with people as much as you can weather you are close to them or not.If you gain some weight is not that important either.You can't deal with everything at the same time.You can exercise a little bit extra when you begin to feel better.I just broke up with my boyfriend too.We will get over this together!
1 year ago
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remember there are people who are worst than u r saturation and always think positive .Plus do not forget that there is GOD the creator and believe that he is there for all the people in this universe. Keep seeking for the bright side every day so u wont fall in the dark side which remembering the past .
1 year ago
Last edited at 4:16PM on 10/15/2012
what i did was took everything they every got me , bought me, made for me etc got a pot got a bottle of acetone (flammable ) and poured it a over everything and set it on fire , then went out with friends and had a great time
Well,back in the day before I understood what-all was going on in general,I used to play Arcade Asteroids and pretend the old ex was all the little asteroids.But I later came to realize that when I broke up with someone,I always,in a sense,needed to "reclaim myself" from whatever had changed in my identity thru association with that person who turned out to be so temporary.I learned not to let temporary people make permanent changes.I had to usually remember what I liked to do before when I was alone,and start doing those activities again that gave me comfort,and in general,"reground" myself from the person I had had to adjust and become in order to emotoinally open myself up to someone.And the other,most important thing was to only remember the good things,and never dwell on bad memories. And then just march the hey ON.hahaha
Have a good cry. Tack a nice long hot bath letting the water wash that person who hurt you off. Then pull yourself together and go out with you good friend or just talk to them over the phone if worse comes to worse then let time work out the kink. Good luck!
ill think about his defaults and anything that made you mad at them... but that's just me when i just got out of a relationship i just thought about something he did to me that made me upset for an example he didn't show up for our date one time... so yeah i got over him with in a weeks time.
The best thing to do to get over beak up is to , just hangout with friends, go talk to your ex about how you feel abou the breakup. Possibly you and your ex will get more close to each other. maybe yo will get back to gether with Him/Her Hope This Helps and Good Luck Your helper, Dylan
get hot and rub it in his / her face then get a really geeky boyfriend/gf and then marry the geek and along the way u and the geek will actually fall in love and then ur ex is really mad and tries to kill ur husband and then he does that awesome ninja move on his but and your ex stays out of your life forever until you find out one of your kids is his and your son acts just like ur ex then you end up trying to put your only son upm for adoption and then your ex comes back and then he/she tries to take the kid away but you love it enough to not let your child suffer what you have gone through so then your husband/wife does ANOTHER awesome ninja move then you NEVER see your ex again then you two grow old together and your son turns out to get good in the end and he is really smart and is running for president and you all live happily ever after :)
until your ex comes to your funeral and kidnaps all your grand children .... :)
Eliminate all hope, once you have done that, you will see how quickly you move on. Program your subconscious mind, repeat to yourself over and over again, that it is over, and that you will move on. Also cry a lot, eventually your body and mind will kick into recovery mode. Time heals all.
Hang out with your family and friends, and move on as soon as possible.. If it was a serious one dont jump into a new relationship. But you need to deal with your feelings dont hide them..... just saying
try to forget about it and move on and show that person that your strong!! that you don't need there help and to be calm and get revenge of trying to make him jellus or remember the song titanium the part that goes "sticks and stones may break my bones.. taking loud not saying much.. shoot me down but i wont fall i am titanium shoot me down but i wont fall i am titanium" and if you don't take these helpful opinion then live sad your whole life and hey i am not trying to be mean at all just in case if it sounds like it
1 year ago
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First of all go ahead and have the good hard cry. Get it out of your system. Do not over analyze the situation, make a list of all the red flags then think about why you ignored them. Set boundaries for all relationships, I had a break up after living together for 3 years. We agreed to stay friends, which meant occasionally seeing each other, occasional phone call, no sex. Only a hug. We defined the faults we had with each other, then each of us decided if we would like to change. We worked on our major fault that bothered the other separately. During the next 5 years, we became the best of friends. Just so happens neither one of us dated seriously within that time. We still really loved one another. We just celebrated our 7 year anniversary. Do not be afraid to consider changes.
don't think about it to much try to clog your mind about everything but your relationship keep your conversations straight, with out any talk about love or feelings because it will bring your feelings up keep your mind on your family don't indulge yourself in ice-cream like others do. 8- D
Live your life!! its impossible to get over him instantly but just try to avoide him as much as possible and try doing new things,increase the number of people and things in your life - the bigger your life the smaller part he has in it.. Just remember that you don't have to be enemys with your ex but its not neccesary to become bff'z either so just know that your not alone in this thing - everyone has at least one bad break up and those who don't never mature and will be even more devastated if they met the REAL love of their life and he/she breaks up with her/ him whereas if you have some experience you can avoid it from ever coming to that [the break up i mean].. Just remember that your ex is you ex bcoz EX stands for : Thanks for the EXperience Our time has EXpired now EXit my life___* & that you can do ten times better!! x0x0x TkmoizZz_*
music (happy not to make you think of him/her) icecreams, donuts, junk food. running. going out with friends or other people. show them what they are missing. pretend you dont need them. or show them you care,a nd want them back. if u did something, apologize, if u messed up fix it. show a form of i miss you or i love you. which ever it is you chose, hope it works for the best. but somtimes doors are shut so others can open. we lose good things, making bad things happen, so amazing things can come. and greater things can occur. <3
Dwelling will not help it will just make you bitter. Hang out with your friends a lot, and try not bad mouth your ex or obsess over his new alleged crushes. It will just create unneeded drama. Find something to do distract you! Maybe a sport, a really good book, your friends, or even a new crush, but one that doesn't mean anything that's purely for the fun of it. You don't want a rebound.
If i were you i would write a song. It does not even have to be good, but you can express exactly how you feel. You can show your sadness or anger. Another way is to write a letter to him (but don't give it to him). You can say whatever you want and he will not know it. I have done this and it works really well. Give it a try. Good luck!
do not give up i saw what you said on top comment you DO have real freinds you must find who they are though do not cut do nothing suicidal there are people for you email me if you need help i am 13 so i now the feeling :) email: email@example.com