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I wouldn't be such a dumb@**

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I kinda figured it out lol
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That is what I want to change about me!
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Gator. I know that I ain't a big fan of you but you aren't a dumb @ . Don't bring yourself down like that.
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my weight

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my car

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lol its very small and old
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Old cars are good!
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I would want to change the fact that I took students loans for college. If I had a chance to go back I would have gotten a third job instead.

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Bad choices...

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My weight. I agree with you, brendaponti

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Don't we all?
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Yeah, like I hate getting picked on by others.
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Especially my own family. My ex husband divorced me because I. Went from a size 0 to 4-6 after I had the kids and developed blood clots lol
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Wow, that's so stupid but sorry for ur blood clots.
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That I sometimes don't trust others when I shouldn't worry about it so much, but I have that little nagging feeling they are lying and I have to confront it and I guess that is a flaw in me, so I have been told.

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Trust is a sacred entity given to those who deserve it...If a significant person has betrayed your trust in the past, it is much more difficult to trust in the present. being lied to is a trauma. Stop considering it a flaw in yourself..grieve the pain and try to forgive...
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Great advice, janusha41, thank you. It is from past burns, once you feel that fire you don't care to feel it again and your guard goes way up.
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so true
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Mary767... I totally agree. I'm dealing with a little of this too (baggage). I think everyone does to an extent. I'd say the best advice, if it's possible, is to reflect and get to the root cause, try to come to terms and realize it's a hindrance to your current state in life, and then forgive and forget. Forgiving isn't saying what was done to you was okay. It's just saying "I'm done allowing that person/incident to affect me any longer." Good luck to you, and send some back my way if ya would :)
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My wieght

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Sadly I have been at home
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My underwear

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I smell 'em from here dude
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No doubt, but the matching racing stripes front and back, inside and outside make me the envy of all men
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Uwwwww
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The question scared you that bad?
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to be a lion again, ALL LION! but gator revoked my membership :(

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I'm in a good mood......you can have it back
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Don't worry simba... You have always been a lion
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do you mean it?
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sure I do
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I know I have always been, but my mistake was wanting to be a tiger, and now I can't go back to being lion :'((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((((
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Of course, once a lion, always a lion
Just like gator will always be a gator, and I will always be made of camouflage, and beasts will always be wendigo, and the woman in white will always be... Well, you get the idea
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and chuck Norris will always be awesome!!!
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I thought that saying only applies to alcoholics

you know once an alcoholic, always an alcoholic?
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You're only an alcoholic if you accept it
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but Jesus drank, so I can drink :D when I'm old enough of course!
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bud light?
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why light? let's drink heavy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Jesus drinks Jack Daniels
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he drank wine dumbass
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that's what THEY want you to think
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who's they? jack daniels didnt even exist then.
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yes it did
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no
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yes
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No it didn't
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Well I, for one, have been helped by these comments haha
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That i didnt need glasses.And i could see perfectly

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I'd like to be more confident and generally happier.

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Jesus can help with that. Never too late
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huh.....
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I agree with Jim, but a little more direct answer on confidence: fake it until you make it. Seriously. Look at other confident people. How do they act/react? Mimic this behavior. It's not being fake, it's self-improvement. Once you start getting good responses from people, you'll start to build actual confidence. Keep it up, and then after a little while, it'll be second nature. On happiness: generally, unhappy people are focused on the wrong things in life. When I'm unhappy, I reflect and realize this. What I mean, focus less on things and more on people. Do for others. Be generous. If you're selfish in any way, try to fix that. You watch out for others, they'll start watching out for you. It's a good feeling. (sorry so long, hope this helps even a little)
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my voice...

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arf arf!
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raaaaawr raaaaaawr
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Ladies wasn't that a bit backwards? Lol
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Buddy_The_Elf
roar rawr arf lol
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Are you a liog now? Lion dog
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hey prince.. ahahah

owww arf arf arf (puppy said "hey prince") ahhah
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I just saw a 12 year old kid with the iPhone 5 WTF?!?
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Hahaha nice Melchie! And My lioness friend! That's just not right! :(
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Melchie I bet you have a great voice mine is bad I got a pretty deep one ha , ha.
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prince: hahahah

Liz - no Liz.. I don't really sing.. My neighbors would really freak out if I do..
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joshuabagel

I'm content so far

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my weight :/

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My complexion or my hair

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from your pic, you look pretty good to me.
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My metabolism

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so far...so good...so no need to change...:P

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I would change the stupid things I done in my younger years.... Crazy stuff .

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It's never too late to forgive and forget; even forgiving yourself. Love and peace, friend.
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Thanks ,
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My weight

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nada:) I enjoy myself the way I am

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Good answer Mr. Drummy
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I want to change where I live, and Howl

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to be a pony!

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amen
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my weight and my procrastination

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straight teeth

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"Braces"
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my height

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Nothing because everyone is special in there own way everyone is different god made us that way

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well mabey shes a fan try not to bring everybody down oh and for tswiftgirl13 ,YOU GO GIRL !!!
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I hate it when I procrastinate. In fact me just answering this question is procrastinating! I should be working!

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Haha the first step is recognizing the problem... on to Step 2
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My irrgular teeth

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nothing. i love myself just the way i am. but mabey i could use a little fat off of my belly...

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Hmm, hard one. Let me think..... nothing. =) Everyone isn't perfect; but be glad you are the person you are. You were made perfectly. Just the way you are..

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i wish i had read this answer before answering this question myself :(
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I wish I could be five inches taller.

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Yes, I'm really short, 5'1". That would be really nice, and not too tall.
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My attitude

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changing the attitude is the on the lists here that is possible.and the most interesting what would you want the change to present
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my awkwardness

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my way of thinking

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the fact the i was even born

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Hey, you are here for a purpose!
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TimoAllens right, i used to wish i wasnt born everyday of my life but you know, you gotta just appreciate what you have... even if you have almost nothin you gotta see past the bad in your life to see some of the good...
#ohlookyoubroughtoutthepreachersideofme... haah
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YOU WERE PUT ON THIS PLANET FOR A RESON!!! DONT BE THAT EMO PERSON EVERYBODY HATES! BE THE FUN, OUTGOING PERSON THAT EVERYONE WANTS TO HAVE AS A FRIEND :) i hope you understand that there are many people that love you
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Everyone is valuable and their life is a gift, regardless of how it seems. Sending some love and peace your way, and hope you can find your way out of the gloom you're feeling. Those feelings may even be a medical reason. If so, please get help, even if you think it'll be pointless.
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my social skills. I wish i wasn't so shy. I wish i was more popular, but oh well.

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On confidence and being more outgoing: I said this a few posts up, but... Fake it until you make it. Seriously. Look at other confident popular people. How do they act/react? Mimic their behavior (unless they're being idiots). It's not being fake, it's self-improvement. Once you start getting good responses from people, you'll start to build actual confidence. Keep it up, and then after a little while, it'll be second nature.
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wow.. thanks for the encouragement.. :)
that was really helpful. I do try my best, and I'll continue to.
Thanks so much again!
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peace and love :)
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<3 :)
peace and love to you too!
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I wish I weren't that anxious.I admire people who take it easy and do not stress if they do not have a particular reason to do that

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Being anxious and stressed is a horrible feeling. I do that too. I'm trying to correct the things that make it worse, like time management and proper sleep. I'm always rushing to work and everywhere. I'm gonna try to get up earlier and leave earlier now; etc. Also, if I have proper sleep, things all the sudden look brighter and become easier. Good luck!
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I'd change my personality.

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Don't do that. Just do a little self-reflection to determine which areas need changing (like negativity or being critical of others), then make small attainable goals to work toward changing those things. Ex. I always criticize people when they give me the chance. Instead of stopping it all together, tell yourself you'll make it a point to not do it at least just once per day. Then increase it...
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Well, that's a lot of staff to change! Are you sure you wanna do that?
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life

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my weight..:(

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This beauty mark i have right next to my nose. I hate it

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My life

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My looks

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Is that you? You're so pretty!
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You are beautiful. Every one is beautiful. Beauty is not on the outside. it is on the inside.
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I would like to know everything i don't know!

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My eating habits. I wish I ate healthier

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id be taller, more athletic, less shy, and more humorous. theres just so much wrong with me

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there is nothing wrong with you, this is what makes you who you are today and if you dont like the choices you've made, just put the past behind you and let your true self lead you to the positive side of the choices you have made
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For athleticism and shyness, just practice. Run and stretch when you can, and just get out there knowing nothing can go wrong :)
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Being short means you fit into the airplane seat better and it's way more comfortable. Less athletic people tend to be smarter or better in other areas. Being shy is appealing to a lot of people. You won't hear someone saying "That shy person is so obnoxious." Being serious and phlegmatic is ofter viewed as wisdom and someone who has their stuff together. I bet you're way cooler than you think.
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My self esteem -.-

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My sister.

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to be at peace and to feel it

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My somewhat perverted mind. It makes just about EVERYTHING awkward!!! :(

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My confidence. I'm always seeking my flaws, but I rarely appreciate all of the things that I am truly gifted with

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if i could change something about myself i would change me going to my dads and having lots of money

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i'd want to be a ninja.

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I actually am a Ninja. Like a true, real life Ninja. I do Ninjitsu and am going to Japan to train in a couple years
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thats cool c:
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AWESOME!!! :3
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my enemies they r so annoying

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My looks :P I am thankful for everything I have but my looks :(

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Nothing, honestly i like the way i am :)

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Nada...

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The fact that i am to nice
i forgive to easily

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If you're feeling like you're being too nice, ask yourself "Am I being walked-on or taken advantage of?" If the answer is yes, you can tell the person something like, "I'm normally too nice to say something like this, but I feel like I let people take advantage of me sometimes, so I can't do what you're asking." They'll probably respect you for it.
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my eye color

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my profile picture ... :) oh wait nevermind ill stick with the peace sign

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nothing so far i wouldn't changed anything since god made me who i am and im thankful for that.

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My procrastination, absolutely!!

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I join you in wanting to be free of PROCRASTINATION....
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yess. me too :3
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my weight!!

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i would make myself braver and more adventures and outgoing

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My fatness

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Everything, because nothing in my life is the way I wanted it to be!

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My hair. I wouldn't have fried it and then had to cut it down to a pixie cut because it was so fried.

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I want improve my ability to say NO

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just practice the broken record method. if some one keeps asking you something you dont want to do, keep saying "no....no....no...." just like a like a broken record.
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My social life. I need more friends.

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My self image because I lack the confidence to be ME....too many negative attitudes and not enough accolades left me wandering and wondering about my worth....with anyone...

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I agree with you deciious23

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my attitude

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everything

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well it would be how i say things to people

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My Hair:)

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I'd change my tardiness. I'm always late, and I can't SEEM to change it. I know I can, so I'm continuing pursuing a solution. I do a lot of things well, but this make me feel a little bit inept.

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have you tried being organized? or getting ready earlier?
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I do need to be more organized, and I'll definitely work on it. Thanks for that, because I sort of forgot about a few things I could do differently; especially when getting ready for work. I've recently swallowed my pride and accepted that it takes me longer to get ready than some people. I've been getting up earlier and I've been early to work 2 out of the past 3 days, and on-time once. That's a miracle for me. Thanks for the suggestions.
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i'd wish to be more confident, and able to speak to ppl in a non-shy way

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have bacon power I can zap bacon any where! good bacon

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My nose and teeth

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My weight, the color of my skin, and the fact that I have Social Anxiety Disorder.

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Bom o fato de eu ser educada demais e ter dificuldades pra dizer nao a algumas coisas!mas no meu corpo queria q as minahs coxas fossem menos gordas

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I have no idea what you are saying. ~Katelynn
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I would change my attitude because in real life i'm crazy

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Hair

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Everything. </3 Katelynn

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Don't say that! I think you would seriously regret it. I bet your awesome just the way you are :) I only asked cuz I was bored :/
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Nope. I hate everything about myself. Boring. Fat. Ugly. Stupid. Too tall. The list goes on. If I could change who I am, I would. I've gotten my heart broken so many times. I just don;t think life is worth living anymore. ~Katelynn
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I'm sure you will realise that you aren't all those things. I used to be the tallest girl at my school, and now I'm pretty average. I know a girl who is 5'11 and she is only twelve. I used to think I was fat, so I became anorexic. I was for a very long time until my friends finally convinced me that I was not fat. I weighed 70 lbs when I was 12. That isn't healthy. And I am sure you are very beautiful. There will be a day when you look in the mirror and don't believe it's you for a moment because you have changed your mind about your appearance. It happens to everyone so don't think it won't happen to you.
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Dont be emo ...
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@365party pooper I'm not emo. And if I was, why not? Just because you don't like emo people doesn't mean you have to make it obvious. ~Katelynn
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@DragonRider11 Thanks! <3 ~Katelynn
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Dont be affended by me, i say that a lot at random occasons :)
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Nothing at all! I love myself! <3

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Nothing Because guess what I'm Happy just the way God created me and I'm not trying to change any of he's wonderful creation!! :)

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thing that trobles me......

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