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Is it wrong for a 14 year old boy to date a 10 year old girl

I don't think there is anything wrong with it there are a lot of people who date other people who are older or younger than them

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Theres npthing wrong with a 4 year age difference but honeslty the 10 yo gurl shouldnt even have a bf right now . Notmally u start at 14 about to date seems way too young at 10 i didnt even know the word bf existed lol

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i started when i was 11
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Yes because that is a ten year old!
Unless your pedo-bear!

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PEDOBEAR!!!! yes
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there is nothing wrong with it
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Ummm honestly a little bit.. I mean none of my business but that would be like 5th grade and 8th grade

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Well when he was four and in school , she was just born so.....kinda

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Yes a lil bit you usually want to stay around your age range when dating

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There's nothing wrong with a four year difference but that's too young to date.

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Well what should I do she asked me to date her but I don't want to hurt her feelings
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Tell her that you're both too young or that maybe you should wait a few years.
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yup

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Yes it is!!! a ten year old don' t have any business dating at all. Why do you want to date someone that young anyway??? If she was my daughter, I would come after you.,

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Like I said she asked me and I'm not dating her I wanted other people's opinion's first so calm down and beside that its not like I'm gonna get her pregnant I wouldn't have sex with her until she was at least 16 and even then it probably wouldn't happen unless I had a good paying job
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You didn't say that she asked you!!! And you must be considering it if you're asking for others opinions...and you say you don't want to have sex with her, you shouldn't want to date her...if that was your little sister and some 14yr old boy wanted to date her, I'm pretty sure you wouldn't approve of it.
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Thanks lisaCastillo...
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yes! you are truelly correct since the teenager could be treating the 10 year old with such disrespect! when i was 10, i was intrigued by american girl dolls and reading, NOT TEENAGERS AND ROMANCE!
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Yes. Maybe in 10 years that would be ok, but she is 10. 14 yr olds do not date 10 yr olds. 10 yr olds do not know what dating is.

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Don't tell me that you think that 10 year olds don't know what dating is you don't think about all the television and social media around kids know days
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That's true, but I'm 14. I still have very little idea what dating is. I would never in my right mind date a 10 yr ild
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Well I'm not dating a 10 year old though I was asked out by a 10 year old and wanted to get other people's opinion's but then people started freaking out about it
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No, it's definitely weird
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Yes

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I say go to the playground and play on the swings and slide down the slides and don't worry about "dating".

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Don't do it, ur not helping ur self our her by doing it

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I'm not
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Yes that's really wrong

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Ok listen I get it
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It would be weird for a 14 year old to date a 10 year old. And I thought at her age she would still think boys are icky!!!!

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Ummm...Ya its kinda weird.I mean you should stick in ur own age range and at this age it is kinda young to start dating.

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You may want to wait a couple years. Either you'll move on or start it then. If you wait it will eventually be easier on both of you.

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4 years isn't really a big difference, but she's 10!

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I don't particularly see age difference as a problem. However I don't really understand how a 14 year old boy can connect with a 10 year old girl on a emotional and physical level. So hun, wait a few years or move on.

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of course yes!
1)she's not a teen
2)she's no of ur age!

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yes. she's not even gonna be a teenager for 3 more yrs. four yrs difference isn't that big a deal if your like 20-24 but 10-14...nope

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it's a little bit inappropriate but I think if you want someone's opinion it should be your or her parents--i read some of the earlier comments and I find it odd that you would be thinking of dating in the first place (Im 16 and havent started yet)...you asked for an opinion so i think you should just forget most of these comments and talk to your (or her) parents. or both if you want (PS--you shouldnt be thinking about having sex with a girl until you are ready to be a father--just some advice) good luck :)

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shes only like 4 years older but yur in 8th shes in 4th ... kinda nasty its like u cant get a gurl u have too date her but u can date her im just saying wat i think

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yes

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Definitely not ;)

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YES, just think when the girl turns 14 then he will be a grown man. Able to do allot more things than her, heck the girl won't be able to drive for another 2 years.

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im sorry people are being so harsh on you about this..but in my honest opinion...i say your not too young to date but she is...stay closer in your age..and explain to her that the age difference between you is too much, maybe when she is older...hope i could be of good help!(:

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if you love her and if she gets how to deal with relatoinships and PLEASE DONT HURT THE GIRL

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i would say no because he is thinking higher levels than you and may introduce you to bad things you may not know about yet. pressuring like to have sex is a bad thing so if he starts that just tell him no cause your to young. im even to young lol. you dont want to wind up with a baby at 10 years old.

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oh wait ur the boy! lol sorry
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The idea of that makes me wanna vomit

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same here there is a boy i like he is 15 i am 13
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what do u mean is it wrong of course its wrong y wuld u even date someone tht young wen ur 14

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no there is this boy i like and im 13 and hes 15

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that's two years, and you're both teenagers. We are talking about an elementary schooler and a freshman in highschool.
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maybe, 10 years old is too young for dating

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not to be rude but i dont think 10 years old are too young to date
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im 12 and im well me and a 14 yr old like eachother but we havnt said anything

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nope

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Take your age divide it by 2 and add 7 that is the legal youngest age you can date

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if you really like her go for it but if its just because of her looks or everyone else dated her then noooo

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uh yah

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No if you like him and that all it matters.

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i see where ur cumin from ...if shes mature enough than age is justa number! dnt stress wht anyone else sez ax her out and let her decide

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kinda but if they happy let the be

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no way its love as long as you aint trying do stuff then no

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no. As long as you love her, it is fine! just make sure that the age difference doesn't affect the love! Hope that helped! Sorry if that is too repetitive!

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yes, this is inappropriate. 10 years old is a very young age for a boyfriend!

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An 18 year old girl could date a 22 year old cause at that age it's ok but 10 years old is TO young to date 14 is probably the earliest but before you shouldn't know what dating even is!

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sorry people are being so rough on you. but i think you should wait a couple of years before you ask her out. start out as friends and see how it goes.

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