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How do you tell your mom you have a boyfriend but she says you can't have one until you are 18?

i really like my boyfriend but i feel guilty for lying to my mom every time i get a text. i think it is ok for me to date b/c i am 13...how do i change her mind?

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You're too young to be dating. Wait a year or 2 .

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If you're really that worried about telling her, then don't. She doesn't need to know.

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I think you should invite him over to your house to hang out and let him meet your parents. If you start to feel that your parents are warming up to him, then you can lay it on them and hope for the best.

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he lives in a different state
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Omg i have the same problem .. Im older then you though im 14 going to 15 .. But anyways my dad told me to not date till 18 i said ok whatever and then i started falling for this guy and i really liked him and he liked me so we are together now we have 2 months already and my mom she gives me hints that she already knows and that she wants me to tell her .. But i dont know how so i guess i will just have to come out and say it :/ just hope for the best . pray every night if i have to .. and i guess you should do the same .. Im scared though :(

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your too young just wait about 2 years when your in a closer comprise age in which you will have a likely chance of dating someone.

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You should break up with him and respect your mom and not date. 13 is way too young, no matter how mature you are.

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Listen to your mom. You a far too young to be doing this.

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The fact that you don't know how to tell her reflects your lack of maturity you should have in order to be in a relationship. You don't have to tell her, you have to end it out of respect for her.

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You tell her the same way you would if you stole a car or some other thing that she told you not to do. You only get one mom and she may not be the best, but you really should respect her rules and be obedient. It will keep you and your mom closer. The Lord will bless you minding your mom! "Honor your father and mother,which is the first commandment with promise,that it may be well with you,and you will live long on the earth." Eph.6:2-3. :-)

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Dont tell her if you feel shes ganna be rude to you of hirt your feelings only tell her if she will be nice about it go with what you want to hope it goes as planned <3

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Just tell her. That's what I did when I wasn't aloud to date. She didn't brake us up.

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