There are several questions to ask yourself about a man: 1. Do I trust him? 2. Do I respect him? 3. Does he respect me? 4. Is he frugal? 5. Do I like him? Notice, I asked do you LIKE him, not do you love him. If you love someone, but don't like him, you'll come to hate him. It's really the most important of the questions. And if you can't answer every question "yes", turn around and RUN the other way.