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My girlfriend is down lately and i want too cheer her up, however she won't let me buy her anything not even flowers, any ideas?

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AWWW that's sweet,
I'm glad some people take relationships seriously these days.
I say; spend time with her! Try to make her laugh, smile, etc.
I like it when people notice I'm sad, and they try to make me laugh and smile and it works!

This is from a girl that has gone through this...many times.

And it's fine if you want to buy her little things, it's a nice way to show you care.
But don't always depend on "presents" to cheer her up.
And if it works she's only using you for gifts.

Act goofy. Be romantic. Say that you love her. hug her, say that you'll be with her 'till the end. And all that stuff. <3

Alrighy! I wish you good luck man.

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Your company should be enough...if that doesn't help, make her a cute card or something that won't cost money. :)

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In order to cheer her up, you first need to identify what may be the cause of her sadness. Try to keep her engaged and be an influence by smiling and laughing but make sure the timing is right. Instead of buying for her a gift, take her out to do something that she enjoys. It's best to be patient as this may be just a passing phase and eventually she may return to her normal self.

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Pick her flowers ! Sure, I know you may not be up to it, but hey! You never bought anything and she means so much to you that you picked her flowers :) That would be a nice surprise for her

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Buy her something any way shell apreciate it or love it

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It would help to find out exactly why she is feeling down. Maybe talking about it will help her feel better. Just be there for her and be supportive and loving.

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