Change who you are and conform to the will of the those that are popular... Or you could just screw them and their ideas of cool and be yourself. You should be asking "How can I be a good example to those around me at school and be a more mature lady?"
you go to school to learn little girl, not to become popular . plus youll be the youngest in middle school, the older kids will look at you like a scrub . its not important to become popular. make good friends